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mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
dazzling_dave: The only person that I have any control over is me. I am becoming a better person as time goes by. CS has played a role in that. I decided a while back that I would be quite happy with my life whether I found someone or not.


You must get lonely and want to find someone. Maybe that will not fulfill happiness but it does fulfill another emotional need we all have.

I wish I had the maturity to leave CS and be content that I will be ok if I am alone for the rest of my life.handshake
dillydally Strathclyde, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
mbcasey: Hey Farley...

It has to happen for you...it just does...






laugh Fuck Ken im too much hard work apparently ,just because i like to be amused 24/7 does not make me high maintenance roll eyes

Truthfully ,i like quiet guys and they all seem to like like quite gurls laugh



zeelanderer Louisville, Kentucky USA
Lagoona22: I think one needs perspective...my perception from what I read here is that the minority has success, which by default means that the majority of us end up either bored, or frustrated, or simply.... here....

Logic tells me the value of the following statements:

5 hours spent interfacing with people in the real world, is worth 5 days spent online...

5 days spent interacting with people in the real world, is worth more than 5 weeks chatting online..

1 date in the real world is worth more than 100 emails and flowers...

Flirting online is similair to masturbation...it can be fun, but it's narcissistic and insular in nature...

Fact of the matter is, it's easier to log on, than it is to interface with another human being..

and people are lazy, so we log on before we pick up a phone...

...but we need to remember, the real world is out there, not in ....here..

JMHO.


Bongo thumbs up

Zee
sassy49senior Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA

I have more of a sad feeling than frustrated. I do still
hope we meet someday. But seems when I do feel that I
would like to start a relationship it is all one sided
and they don't feel the same. But as many others, I will
not give up.



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Lagoona22: I think one needs perspective...my perception from what I read here is that the minority has success, which by default means that the majority of us end up either bored, or frustrated, or simply.... here....

Logic tells me the value of the following statements:

5 hours spent interfacing with people in the real world, is worth 5 days spent online...

5 days spent interacting with people in the real world, is worth more than 5 weeks chatting online..

1 date in the real world is worth more than 100 emails and flowers...

Flirting online is similair to masturbation...it can be fun, but it's narcissistic and insular in nature...

Fact of the matter is, it's easier to log on, than it is to interface with another human being..

and people are lazy, so we log on before we pick up a phone...

...but we need to remember, the real world is out there, not in ....here..

JMHO.


I agree 100% Lago

This is easier and people are lazy.

But how many are also afraid to go out to RL and take chances? I admit I am one of those people.



Lagoona22 Bugibba, Majjistral Malta
I hope you're not serious Dilly..
dillydally: Fuck Ken im too much hard work apparently ,just because i like to be amused 24/7 does not make me high maintenance

Truthfully ,i like quiet guys and they all seem to like like quite gurls
dillydally Strathclyde, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Lagoona22: I think one needs perspective...my perception from what I read here is that the minority has success, which by default means that the majority of us end up either bored, or frustrated, or simply.... here....

Logic tells me the value of the following statements:

5 hours spent interfacing with people in the real world, is worth 5 days spent online...

5 days spent interacting with people in the real world, is worth more than 5 weeks chatting online..

1 date in the real world is worth more than 100 emails and flowers...

Flirting online is similair to masturbation...it can be fun, but it's narcissistic and insular in nature...

Fact of the matter is, it's easier to log on, than it is to interface with another human being..

and people are lazy, so we log on before we pick up a phone...

...but we need to remember, the real world is out there, not in ....here..

JMHO.




I tend to forget about the real world and the people in it when i log on here ,but dating in life is just as hard as dating from here .We all meet the village idiot at one point ,but at least here we can be rude with cute emoticons laugh



SweetKim neosho, Missouri USA
I don't have any expectations for meeting anyone over the internet. As far as in my everyday life, yes I wonder why I haven't met anyone. For the most part i'm ok with that, but there are days I wonder what the crap is wrong with me!! But hopefully someone will come around, I won't settle! That's for darn sure! And i've watched too many 20 20 shows to meet people from off here lol

You seem like a sweetheart and I wish you all the luck in the world you deserve it!



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
dillydally: Fuck Ken im too much hard work apparently ,just because i like to be amused 24/7 does not make me high maintenance

Truthfully ,i like quiet guys and they all seem to like like quite gurls


Amused 24/7...then all you need is a goofy looking guy. You can laugh at him while he is sleeping...laugh

<---goofy looking and quiet...grin
dillydally Strathclyde, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Lagoona22: I hope you're not serious Dilly..



Well i sure am Mister .......infact im very amused right now wink



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
sassy49senior: I have more of a sad feeling than frustrated. I do still
hope we meet someday. But seems when I do feel that I
would like to start a relationship it is all one sided
and they don't feel the same. But as many others, I will
not give up.


Sadness is all part of it Sassy. I feel all the above like Farley. It is so hard to be patient sometimes...hug
dillydally Strathclyde, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
mbcasey: Amused 24/7...then all you need is a goofy looking guy. You can laugh at him while he is sleeping...

<---goofy looking and quiet...






laugh Ken your too much hard work as well matey



dazzling_dave Waynesboro, Virginia USA
mbcasey: You must get lonely and want to find someone. Maybe that will not fulfill happiness but it does fulfill another emotional need we all have.

I wish I had the maturity to leave CS and be content that I will be ok if I am alone for the rest of my life.


Happiness and contentment come from within. You make it sound as if CS is the only place on earth to find a woman.

dillydally Strathclyde, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
SweetKim: I don't have any expectations for meeting anyone over the internet. As far as in my everyday life, yes I wonder why I haven't met anyone. For the most part i'm ok with that, but there are days I wonder what the crap is wrong with me!! But hopefully someone will come around, I won't settle! That's for darn sure! And i've watched too many 20 20 shows to meet people from off here lol

You seem like a sweetheart and I wish you all the luck in the world you deserve it!



Never settle applause



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
SweetKim: I don't have any expectations for meeting anyone over the internet. As far as in my everyday life, yes I wonder why I haven't met anyone. For the most part i'm ok with that, but there are days I wonder what the crap is wrong with me!! But hopefully someone will come around, I won't settle! That's for darn sure! And i've watched too many 20 20 shows to meet people from off here lol

You seem like a sweetheart and I wish you all the luck in the world you deserve it!


Thanks Kim...

There is nothing wrong with you.hug

Like Lagoona said, it is easier to come here maybe with the slight chance of meeting someone. But RL is the better option and if you are one comfortable with real life situations, then more power to you!!



zeelanderer Louisville, Kentucky USA
I guess I am more of a glutten for punishment.... even though every internet date i have ever had has been a total disaster, I keep stepping into the batters box and keep swinging the bat.

Zee
dillydally Strathclyde, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
mbcasey: Sadness is all part of it Sassy. I feel all the above like Farley. It is so hard to be patient sometimes...



Dont you feel tho that when things get good for yourself BAM there comes another hot femme or male interested in you ??laugh i always wonder how they do that



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
dazzling_dave: Happiness and contentment come from within. You make it sound as if CS is the only place on earth to find a woman.


It isn't, but I believe I have a much better chance here than the real world.



mbcasey North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
zeelanderer: I guess I am more of a glutten for punishment.... even though every internet date i have ever had has been a total disaster, I keep stepping into the batters box and keep swinging the bat.

Zee


I hope you will find someone Zee...all you can do is keep trying. I think that is why I am still here even though I just want to give up sometimes
Drewski Olds, Alberta Canada
When I lived back east I carried on an online relationship for a couple of months with a gal from Texas. One day work sent me out there and sure enough she was a freakazoid. I've met some good girls online and some bad ones however, nowadays living in the middle of nowhere about fifty miles from a major city makes it extremely difficult to meet locals and, the tons of singles from the city may view me as too far away and, may think there is something wrong with me as one of the first things to come out in conversation is to wonder why I haven't been caught yet.

Locally, it's difficult to go out and become the talk of the town when you don't even know the girl, then have everybody ask me afterwords what is wrong with me (I mean, to them, she's a single girl and me a single guy so it has to be true love right?) so why didn't it work after the movie?

To tell the truth, if I lived in a city, I wouldn't even bother with the internet for anything.




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