tainogirl: Recently there seems to be a lot of threads with people complaining that even though they are decent, honest, not into head games etc...they just can't seem to meet equally decent folks here on CS. Why can't all these decent people meet and make a connection? Some have taken the more direct approach with threads practicaly screaming "Take me I'm available!"Why does it have to be that way? Are the expectations too high, Distance to find love too far to travel? Cultural differences too difficult to put aside? What's the problem? Perhaps the answers lay not with CS but on the inside, what do you want and why can't you find it? Perhaps all it takes is leaving your comfort zone a little and reaching out to someone you would not normally have contacted, sometimes you never know where a thing could lead. The important thing is to never give up though, I believe love is still out there.
To be honest, the decent ones i would date, are too far away, and the other ones i think are genuinely nice, can never be anything more to me, than friends. I love them as friends, but there is no chemistry.
I have also realised that, most men who
bug me, are either broke, or just exude/ carry too many issues with them, namely:
1. Baby mamas' drama
2. Boredom
3. Many babies
4. Joblessness
5. Weirdness
6. Peculiar weirdness
7. Bankruptcy
8. More boredom
9. More Bankruptcy
10. Weird peculiarity
11. The 'really not my type' category ( no attraction of any sort, be it, emotional, intellectual, or physical). *Refer to nos. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10*.
12. Finally, there are those who really can't spell, and i can't tell what they're saying, half the time.
It's like a curse!
Bikira Maria, tuonee huruma, na utuombee!
