Abram: "Recently there seems to be a lot of threads with people complaining that even though they are decent, honest, not into head games etc...they just can't seem to meet equally decent folks here on CS."
Have talked to, even met, decent, honest, not into head games, people here on CS, and do not see many, or any, of those good people complaining. I would suspect, some of the best people on CS, are low key, not braggards, and actually looking for a permanent, life connection. Not that "expectations" are "too high", but that defenses are high with concerns of past experiences they do not want to repeat. Myself, if the connection is promising, I'll take steps to find out, if it is not there, will move on. Decent, honest steps, open, in full view, has any post I make, here on CS are, my profile is, my life is. Not a beggar screaming, "Take me I'm available!", but a person being who I am, not complaining of desperation. That's for those who cannot make it of themselves, but need something that others offer to complete selfish desires. Get it quickly, without the needed responsibilities to aquire it, of there own qualities.