How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

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Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
jvaski: I am looking for something along the lines of a "Stepford Wife"
and haven't seen one emerge yet


If you find twins let me have one....rolling on the floor laughing
tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
sweetowen: Lush, I think she's talking about the title of the thread.


What's wrong with the title? Hey I'm just using a word that I see a lot in profiles, Everyone has their view on what's decent or indecent. There are those who have had the luck of the draw and found someone, now if they would just sprinkle some of that fairy dust on the rest of uscheers



SexyAttorney Clearwater, Florida USA
Shirley49WV: Maybe we tell to much about ourselves on here? In RL it would take several dates or years to find out.
I'm the type of person that I am me accept it or not. Maybe that is it!



I disclose much in my profile to eliminate those that I am not compatable with. I am upfront and forthright in mine and do not "generalize" with the same old mundane cliche lines. I shoot from the hip so as not to mislead any gentleman. It's there in black and white and read all over........



SexyAttorney Clearwater, Florida USA
jvaski: I am looking for something along the lines of a "Stepford Wife"
and haven't seen one emerge yet




rolling on the floor laughing
sweetowen Somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
tainogirl: What's wrong with the title? Hey I'm just using a word that I see a lot in profiles, Everyone has their view on what's decent or indecent. There are those who have had the luck of the draw and found someone, now if they would just sprinkle some of that fairy dust on the rest of us


No no!! There's nothing wrong with the title!! It just sounded as though Lush thought Sommer was talking about a post she made.

And though I've "found someone", not sure what's going to happen... I'm hanging in limbo, for now. So am I lucky or not? dunno
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
Big_John: If you find twins let me have one....


You bet, but I'm gonna keep the one with enhanced submissive programming ......beer
tainogirl Trincity,West Indies, Trinidad and Tobago
pietermat: do you think I am decent?


So what make you a decent man? Enquiring minds want to know.



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
ooby_dooby: Everybody is searching for Mr or Mrs Right. People don't want to get involved with someone because they think that there's always going to be something better to come along and they don't want to settle for ordinary or average. As you mentioned, distance is also a very big deterant as is religeon, political leanings and financial considerations. How many profiles have you seen (mostly womens) that mentions the guy should be gainfully employed cause they aren't about to support a a man (been there done that). I can't remember ever seeing a mans profile that demanded the woman have a job but I don't make a habit of reading mens profiles either. Smoking is another issue. Many non smokers will not date a smoker, period. Then there's age. Too many people take the age bracket that people put in their profile way to literally. I think it's merely a starting point.
Then too there is the confidence issue. She's so beautiful she could get any man, what would she want with me, and vice versa.
Then there's the issue of kids and pets.
I could go on.


I am a non-smoker and married a smoker..

haha and i married a younger man..
Abram Goshen, Ohio USA
"Recently there seems to be a lot of threads with people complaining that even though they are decent, honest, not into head games etc...they just can't seem to meet equally decent folks here on CS."

Have talked to, even met, decent, honest, not into head games, people here on CS, and do not see many, or any, of those good people complaining. I would suspect, some of the best people on CS, are low key, not braggards, and actually looking for a permanent, life connection. Not that "expectations" are "too high", but that defenses are high with concerns of past experiences they do not want to repeat. Myself, if the connection is promising, I'll take steps to find out, if it is not there, will move on. Decent, honest steps, open, in full view, has any post I make, here on CS are, my profile is, my life is. Not a beggar screaming, "Take me I'm available!", but a person being who I am, not complaining of desperation. That's for those who cannot make it of themselves, but need something that others offer to complete selfish desires. Get it quickly, without the needed responsibilities to aquire it, of there own qualities.



pietermat Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands
pietermat: How about you. what is your opinion? Am I decent?/


The question was for sexyattorny cheers
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
Abram: "Recently there seems to be a lot of threads with people complaining that even though they are decent, honest, not into head games etc...they just can't seem to meet equally decent folks here on CS."

Have talked to, even met, decent, honest, not into head games, people here on CS, and do not see many, or any, of those good people complaining. I would suspect, some of the best people on CS, are low key, not braggards, and actually looking for a permanent, life connection. Not that "expectations" are "too high", but that defenses are high with concerns of past experiences they do not want to repeat. Myself, if the connection is promising, I'll take steps to find out, if it is not there, will move on. Decent, honest steps, open, in full view, has any post I make, here on CS are, my profile is, my life is. Not a beggar screaming, "Take me I'm available!", but a person being who I am, not complaining of desperation. That's for those who cannot make it of themselves, but need something that others offer to complete selfish desires. Get it quickly, without the needed responsibilities to aquire it, of there own qualities.


thumbs up



pietermat Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands
endeavouring to be decent ones in a while cool
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
SexyAttorney: I shoot from the hip so as not to mislead


I usually hold a gun up at eye level when I'm pistol shootingdunno

You must be a purdy good shot, Sexythumbs up
Darkhorseman Gold Coast, Queensland Australia
GreenEyedBlonde1: Hi there,

Personally I think the men are looking for hotties and the older they get they live in a fantasy world! Older women are not as exciting, oh well.....I don't find older men who are walking around with a big beer belly much of a catch anyway! I'm just looking for a nice, decent man, no weirdo's.


And I think the older women g the more they are looking for a young man with money ... I was a young man once, and I had NO money. I spent it on young women. Get over it. I did.

venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
kissmedeeply: I am a non-smoker and married a smoker..

haha and i married a younger man..


hope he 'kisses you deeply', after getting rid of the tobacco 'taste'laugh
Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
I think I will redefine the meaning of love connection and convince myself in that meaning then I will be able to make a connection. Or maybe I should stop being decent and become a bad boy and go for it.



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
venere08: hope he 'kisses you deeply', after getting rid of the tobacco 'taste'


I cant taste or smell it on him..

you would think i could becos i am a non-smoker..

maybe its becos he doesnt smoke that often..dunno

I was a smoker 17 years ago..it only bothers me
when i am very close to the smoke itself..



Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria
lusciousmile: I'm hoping you aren't misintepreting my post, yet again.

Why would you even make such a statement, knowing no one means that?



Why would you assume that my post was directed at you?

Remember, we quote, when we are questioning a person's statement.

Therefore, I was not.

Ok.




Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
Big_John: I think I will redefine the meaning of love connection and convince myself in that meaning then I will be able to make a connection. Or maybe I should stop being decent and become a bad boy and go for it.


Go for the bad boy and just do it. thumbs up



pietermat Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands
To SexyAttorney - your picture can't be rated - I would have given you a 20 and a half - if they would look like you, they would'nt come up with this kind of crap. End of story.




















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