How come all the decent men and women on CS cant make a love con

emesylva slc, Utah USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:20 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

After going thru most of the posts here, it seems to me that we are using the term "decent" loosely.

If somebody lies and pretends what he/she is not on the net, then it is no longer decency, is it?

pietermat Amsterdam, Noord-Holland Netherlands

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:21 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

lusciousmile: Please elaborate, sir!

OK since you ask so politely young lady.

What I don't understand is the sense of the initial question Decent or indecent. Expressed in a context they are like this or like that and they get a date and the others dont - I brought up my daughter, your age, in a decent unselfish way by staying with her mother some 15 yrs too long in an unhappy relationship not to perturbate her education etc.
She became a well known classical musician so I think it was worth it.

Now I only have myself to feed snd on this site now hardly a week obtained many reaction from stunning woman and several rendez vous are already planned.

It's fast sure, but why not, I don't get into complicated long email stories, just pick up the phone and jump on a plane - got nothing to loose - if she's lying or does'nt looks like her picture well the flowers she gets, the champain I drink it myself and the perfume from Paris stays in my pocket for the next one.

Now is this indecent, having an attitude 'be nice to me and I'l be nice to you' ? Will be the first one who goes of this site when the right person appears. But in the mean time lots of fun.

Is this indecent? If so happy to be.

HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:23 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

Sommerauer71: And now it is time for me to take you back to the asylum.

I need to be back in the home by 11:00PM....Only 2 1/2 more hours..

Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:26 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

pietermat: OK since you ask so politely young lady.

What I don't understand is the sense of the initial question Decent or indecent. Expressed in a context they are like this or like that and they get a date and the others dont - I brought up my daughter, your age, in a decent unselfish way by staying with her mother some 15 yrs too long in an unhappy relationship not to perturbate her education etc.
She became a well known classical musician so I think it was worth it.

Now I only have myself to feed snd on this site now hardly a week obtained many reaction from stunning woman and several rendez vous are already planned.

It's fast sure, but why not, I don't get into complicated long email stories, just pick up the phone and jump on a plane - got nothing to loose - if she's lying or does'nt looks like her picture well the flowers she gets, the champain I drink it myself and the perfume from Paris stays in my pocket for the next one.

Now is this indecent, having an attitude 'be nice to me and I'l be nice to you' ? Will be the first one who goes of this site when the right person appears. But in the mean time lots of fun.

Is this indecent? If so happy to be.

Oh I like this post, very much.

I do really like it...

I am one that pushes, to meet, I am not into endless emails, calls, I want to feel, touch, smell a person, I have connected with, I know who I have connected with...

And if I travel, then I will take a damn good book, make sure there is a nice hotel close by and have a damn fine time if my fingers no like and he smells ghastly.

USJoeDoe bronx, New York USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:27 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

Guys can someone explain the ladies that their prince charming is not wearing a shiny armor or riding a white horse...maybe some of your standards are way too high

USJoeDoe bronx, New York USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:29 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

Ohhh and you want us to be indecent.....when the lights are off. Otherwise is just boring. Agree?

Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:29 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

USJoeDoe: Guys can someone explain the ladies that their prince charming is not wearing a shiny armor or riding a white horse...maybe some of your standards are way too high

What?????

Yes they are...

Especially the horse bit, he collected me, heaving bosom and all and swept me off to the forest...

tipaly81 Moscow, Idaho USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:31 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

I am not on here long enough, and I don't think there are many men in the area that are that interested. Not really.

patrickthomas Mullingar, Westmeath Ireland

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:32 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

Do you have any idea how hard it is to get a decent suit of armour fitted nowadays? My back is broken with the fittings, and I am sick of all the polishing...what's more if that Steed shits one more time on the doorstep, he's horsemeat!

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:34 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

patrickthomas: Do you have any idea how hard it is to get a decent suit of armour fitted nowadays? My back is broken with the fittings, and I am sick of all the polishing...what's more if that Steed shits one more time on the doorstep, he's horsemeat!

Yes I do. It took me six months just to get the appointment. Then I had to wait a year for the appointment. But, it was worth it. My armour suit fits me well and the women love it.

Sommerauer71 Salzburg, Salzburg Austria

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:37 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

patrickthomas: Do you have any idea how hard it is to get a decent suit of armour fitted nowadays? My back is broken with the fittings, and I am sick of all the polishing...what's more if that Steed shits one more time on the doorstep, he's horsemeat!

Ah, speak and think of the devil...

And in he walks.

Hugz_n_Kissez Someplace, Ontario Canada

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:39 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

emesylva: After going thru most of the posts here, it seems to me that we are using the term "decent" loosely.

If somebody lies and pretends what he/she is not on the net, then it is no longer decency, is it?

No I don't think it is....

Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:41 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

emesylva: After going thru most of the posts here, it seems to me that we are using the term "decent" loosely.

If somebody lies and pretends what he/she is not on the net, then it is no longer decency, is it?

Hey I represent that! I am a pretty decent liar.

jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:46 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

emesylva: After going thru most of the posts here, it seems to me that we are using the term "decent" loosely.

If somebody lies and pretends what he/she is not on the net, then it is no longer decency, is it?

I would call that "normal"

jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:48 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

Hugz_n_Kissez: No I don't think it is....

You better take a look at your profile then little darlin...

venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia

Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:08 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

patrickthomas: Do you have any idea how hard it is to get a decent suit of armour fitted nowadays? My back is broken with the fittings, and I am sick of all the polishing...what's more if that Steed shits one more time on the doorstep, he's horsemeat!

I thought you had left, Patrick, nice to see you.

Some advice: you might want to check with some Hong Kong 'tailors'.

I hear they measure and make within a few hours. It mightn't be the real deal Gucci 'armour', but a pretty good rip off of same! No-one will know the difference.

And cuz it's a fake replica, they use lighter materials, so it will save your back!

southmiami Tampa, Florida USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:20 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

Each one of us are here for practically the same reason. I have been in this site for two months and I have spoken to decent men, players, younger men, scammers,you name it.
Sometimes it takes time to find the right person.
This site is to connect people as friends, LTR, intimate encounter or they are here just have fun making you lose your time.
I'm looking and consider that friendship should be the starting point because if there is no communication or understanding the relationship won't work. Chemistry is impotant but that's after you meet the person.
There are guys here that invite you for a drink after the first chat, can't they realize that they are complete strangers to us?
Or others are to nice to tell you they are not interested.
I would appreciate gentlemen if you don't like a person just go to the point and just be friends that saves us so much time.
My profile is very simple and I'm that kind of person.
If I do find that Mr. Right here that's going to be it.
So gentlemen if you are looking for intimate encounter there are ladies here for that, others for LTR also and goes on and on.
For those ladies that are young good luck!
For those ladies that are older like me I'm sure we'll have our share, good luck to you too.

melissa333 brighton, Michigan USA

Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:34 PM CST : How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection

tainogirl: Recently there seems to be a lot of threads with people complaining that even though they are decent, honest, not into head games etc...they just can't seem to meet equally decent folks here on CS. Why can't all these decent people meet and make a connection? Some have taken the more direct approach with threads practicaly screaming "Take me I'm available!"Why does it have to be that way? Are the expectations too high, Distance to find love too far to travel? Cultural differences too difficult to put aside? What's the problem? Perhaps the answers lay not with CS but on the inside, what do you want and why can't you find it? Perhaps all it takes is leaving your comfort zone a little and reaching out to someone you would not normally have contacted, sometimes you never know where a thing could lead. The important thing is to never give up though, I believe love is still out there.

Hello,
I have been on here for about two years.
I am married now and still message my husband at least weekly.On this site.

I think that part of the problem for alot of people is the fact that not all of the people on here are computer literate and can't post pictures,like my husband.
He had plenty of interest,but no picture and no way to put one up without help.I took a chance and met him anyway,and the rest they say is history.
I also think that it is very hard to trust being that this is not exactly a traditional setting.

Do yourselves a favor,don't rush it,love is out there waiting,just give someone a chance and if it is not love it could be a longterm abiding friendship...You could find love with the most unlikely of people just by giving a person a chance that you never would have if you had just seen them accross a crowded room...

As I have learned,sometimes it's all about believing in fate,what could it hurt right?

Good Luck,
melissa