Ah sorry folkies, this is really embarrassing for me to admit but i didn't go in the forums to see the thread!
Roseofsharon told me about it and i felt compelled to say a heartfelt thank you to all those who spent time even wishing me well!
I have been marauding job agencies since becoming one of the many to have suffered redundancy as the worlds economy just fell on it's backside.
You'd never guess by luck I was born on the 13th would you?
Sods law!!
Truth be told i honestly don't bother with my birthday, not because of turning 41, but would you believe i have sort have had almost a phobia about being caught out with a celebration.Yep, it's really true, i was once very quiet due to a career choice and am still trying to open my shell just a tiny bit.
This all started out with an aunt who tried to organise a party for me, and i really don't like personal attention in real life, as i am such a shy and retiring character

Somehow i doubt you will believe me but i spent last night reading about Samurai customs and not preparing to go on the razzle tonight!
I should have told a whopping great fib and lied about my birthday, but somehow i doubt Riya "The Cakemonster" as i call her would have forgotten.
To all who bothered, sincerely, thank you for your wishes and i hope you all have a good new year...i on the other hand will have another year of grief....this one will be truly horrible.
To you all,

And the best of the luck on the site.