tainogirl: Guys what are the things you would look for in a woman that would convince you to take yourself off the market and make a commitment to her?
In my (humble) opinion there are two important things, which are equally weight (50/50):
The sexual matchMeaning you have to be compatible regarding your needs and desire. If you fit, that's good. If you want it twice a day and the other partner is happy with once a week, than the separation is already pre-programmed. Nobody is good or bad in bed, they just don't match.
The intellectual matchYou should enjoy each others company and should never have boring moments with each other. Or what I have seen so often in public places, that couples sitting together at the bar or restaurant and never talked to each other!
From my experience it is very difficult to find somebody to match both criteria. Mostly they where good friends and interesting, humorous, sensitive and fun to be with, but the sexual part didn't match!
