Tater:
as I've said before being gay is a choice, like everything else....
Sorry for jumping in, but I am convinced that being gay is living with a genetical error.
Let's face it, we are here to reproduce and care for our offsprings to grow up safely (ripping away any cloudy blanket of meaning of life).
Gay's are attracted to the wrong side to be able to do that, the love and caring we can feel for our partner to want us follow that path is for them an obstacle when they want to reproduce.
I do not think it is a choice, it is an error as so many others. I think you can "become gay" of choice if you have a slight error, meaning that you are actually bi-sexual, but the error is still there.
Some are born blind, some deaf and some gay. As a society we need to provide space for all of us.
There are too people born to become a problem to this society, as they lack ability of the right emotions. Not all criminals are it because of their upbringing, they simply lack the gene for empati.