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jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
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somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
BarrenPneuma: Imagine Anna, imagine that no one is taken or too far or too young or too old or any other complication. Hypothetical and not merely based on gorgeous of course. But then again I know you already knew that.



I know what you're saying Mark and this is only a hypothetical question but what if I do name someone by name from this site and they may not like me or feel the same way about me.
I don't mind taking risks in life.But I would feel very uncomfortable putting me or anyone else in that position.I just can't do it. Sorry. hug wave
hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
somechick: I know what you're saying Mark and this is only a hypothetical question but what if I do name someone by name from this site and they may not like me or feel the same way about me.
I don't mind taking risks in life.But I would feel very uncomfortable putting me or anyone else in that position.I just can't do it. Sorry.



Same here, sister.thumbs up
somechick Cincinnati Ohio, Ohio USA
loverboy690: oh I feel dumb



Awww don't feel that way.hug comfort You're not dumb.




nurcnurc Longwood, Florida USA
BarrenPneuma: Imagine Anna, imagine that no one is taken or too far or too young or too old or any other complication. Hypothetical and not merely based on gorgeous of course. But then again I know you already knew that.


Then you should answer your own hypothetical question to be fair. The previous answer said you are satisfied with your lady.
Ambrose2007 Badger, South Dakota USA
BarrenPneuma: Absolutely not looking my friend. Completely sated with one woman in my life and would never find what she is no matter how long I lived.
Besides she is in my life in all the ways that matter and the promise of life is like nectar dribbling off her chin that my tongue is electrifed by a single touch.


Dear lord, Mark...I hope she knows how to use a napkin!wow conversing laugh
jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
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jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
BarrenPneuma: ...pick one person from CS to date and make some sort of future with, who would it be?

Imagie no distance factor, age difference, taken or not. It is purely hypothetical after all. No complications just a pure blank slate to begin with on both sides.

No reasons required just a name.


Already working on it...Da10th. And we had no complications until his computer crashed, now we have a complication in communication. He's still my only answer on here so far, and will remain so unless we don't work out once we have communication back.





constanza Aude, Languedoc-Roussillon France
BarrenPneuma: ...pick one person from CS to date and make some sort of future with, who would it be?

Imagie no distance factor, age difference, taken or not. It is purely hypothetical after all. No complications just a pure blank slate to begin with on both sides.

No reasons required just a name.



It's really complicated when you say future...because it takes so much more than attraction and chemistry; it takes lots of honesty which in my experience isn't easy for most of us, compromise, and lots of dedication which only stems from true love. Again most people are superficial, stubborn, and why not be real honest about this...men like to feel in charge...they like controlling their women ...and to me that is just plain abusive. So whom would I choose....afraid to take chnaces at this point....and not ready anyway for more complications...still digesting the shock of my life with Phil.peace
riyablossom somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
In response to: ...pick one person from CS to date and make some sort of future with, who would it be?

Imagie no distance factor, age difference, taken or not. It is purely hypothetical after all. No complications just a pure blank slate to begin with on both sides.

No reasons required just a name.


hmmm dunno will think about it ...
riyablossom somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
constanza: It's really complicated when you say future...because it takes so much more than attraction and chemistry; it takes lots of honesty which in my experience isn't easy for most of us, compromise, and lots of dedication which only stems from true love. Again most people are superficial, stubborn, and why not be real honest about this...men like to feel in charge...they like controlling their women ...and to me that is just plain abusive. So whom would I choose....afraid to take chnaces at this point....and not ready anyway for more complications...still digesting the shock of my life with Phil.


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constanza Aude, Languedoc-Roussillon France

Hi Riya.....a pleasure to see you aroundteddybear



BarrenPneuma Golden Staircase, Ontario Canada
somechick: I know what you're saying Mark and this is only a hypothetical question but what if I do name someone by name from this site and they may not like me or feel the same way about me.
I don't mind taking risks in life.But I would feel very uncomfortable putting me or anyone else in that position.I just can't do it. Sorry.


Anna you are a wonderful woman. Who would not be completely happy to even be mentioned by you in even a hypothetical way as this?

I do believe the posts thusfar herein are one of the defining reasons theat there are so few actual connections here by comparison to volume of inhabitants. Fear of rejection.
But if fear is the slave master of your heart then what room is there left for Love? The two cannot coexist.
No risk no gain.
Every attempt to reach someone that we forgo is assured failure.

Odd how so many can lightly flirt as long as there is no chance of being ignored.

Take the plunge, the water might be cold but the exhilaration of its caress is sheer bliss.



kissmedeeply Petitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada
Other then my husband..to be honest no onedunno



BarrenPneuma Golden Staircase, Ontario Canada
hopefloats: Same here, sister.


You too??? Come on now where is all the bravery in your hearts? What use is all you have to offer someone if you keep it locked up from even a game?
Can't be any worse than spin the bottle and I am sure far more have played that game?
riyablossom somewhere, Pennsylvania USA
constanza: Hi Riya.....a pleasure to see you around


likewise dear .. hug hug
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
somechick: I know what you're saying Mark and this is only a hypothetical question but what if I do name someone by name from this site and they may not like me or feel the same way about me.
I don't mind taking risks in life.But I would feel very uncomfortable putting me or anyone else in that position.I just can't do it. Sorry.
I know, I agree. With silence comes fantasies that only I know about.



BarrenPneuma Golden Staircase, Ontario Canada
druidess6308: Already working on it...Da10th. And we had no complications until his computer crashed, now we have a complication in communication. He's still my only answer on here so far, and will remain so unless we don't work out once we have communication back.


At last a fearless one! Congratulations sweetheart!hug
hopefloats Slim's Lady, Tennessee USA
BarrenPneuma: You too??? Come on now where is all the bravery in your hearts? What use is all you have to offer someone if you keep it locked up from even a game?
Can't be any worse than spin the bottle and I am sure far more have played that game?




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