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I don't know, but I love saying them sometimes...they just relieve the stress better than the softer, substitute words at times. Or, tell someone exactly how you feel about them better than other words. Nothing wrong with that in my books. I just try not to use them too often.

I try not to use them either! But do feel better when I let one out then immediately feel bad! Lol

I swore like a soldier when I came out of the Army, every other word was a cuss word. It's just the lingo of the military, and you pick it up without realizing it. Then one day I became a mother. That changed my language a lot. Now they're teens, and the only time I feel bad when one slips out is around their friends. I definitely don't use them as much as I used to, but not as little as I did when my sons were little, either.

Yeah that's what I want to know; who created them?

'poop-head' just doesn't have the same effect

And I learned from a friend from Scotland that with your friends you say F-off and to your enemies it's F-you.

And the F-word can be a nown, pronoun, verb, adverb and adjective depending how you use it very versatile

It's from the pre-historic olde english 'fuccus' to plant a seed with a stick

I don't know who invented them, but I sure love it when they get whispered in my ear! How about the rest of you? Has anybody else evolved to this level? I really love it when they are totally unexpected. I can still remember the amazement the first time I heard those whispers. What a turn on! If you guys haven't experienced it. You have got to give it a try! Get your lady to do it for you. Believe me, you will never be the same! It's the livin end, I tell you!

I use them all the time, usually not in a bad way...

I was at a friends house one time and there was one experienced pastor and one new one there talking with my friend's kids. and something or another was brought up along cuss words and sin...

So I explained to them my point of veiw... which is::

A word is only a sin if used in a negative way... Cuss words are dictated by how society wants to veiw different words at different times...

Examples...
Bitch used to be how someone would refer to a female dog

See that bitch running throught the yard, but when people started using the word negatively(putting down someone) now all the sudden the word is bad... no the word is the same.

The F word at one time meant " to sow seeds" or to plant seeds
now because of people having a different meaning for the word, they just consider the word bad.... No it is the same word.

So anyways I was telling the preachers that when my friends call me on the phone, that might ask me wht I want to do that night, and I might respond... F#ck I don't care what we do.....

I am not mad when I say the word and I am not meaning anything negative, so I told them I feel that it is not a sin when used that way...

I asked them, isn't it funny how a parent will spank a child for calling someone a B#tch, but it is perfectly find if they called someone a mean,bad person, and in my opinion, both would be a sin, because they meant it negatively , and the young new peacher agreed with me totally, then the old preacher got pissed at me and they left...

And another...

Shit = Ship High In Transit

People used to curse others by a verbal curse. Then these became short cursings! The as people will...lazyness of word they became cussing! But things like "go to hell" was a curse!,"Damn you" (to be damned to hell), and on and on. Now days cussing is stupid sounding if you think about what is said. "you are dumber than f**K" Just how dumb is F**K to be a standard of comparison. "I will blow you car to f*8k." "what in the f**K are you doing" "Shut you damn mouth" (is this a mouth damning someone?) "Shut you damned mouth" (how can the mouth be damned to hell only without the body. Listen to most cussing, it is nothing but saying a bad word with a common thought of contempt making no or little sense as far as message.

I'm pissed to hell and back? (what?) Crazy use of words!

Adam and Eve created cuss words after they got their butts kicked out of the Garden of Eden they were probably cursing at each other when they realized they would now have to work for a living plus getting on each others nerves.

When my daughter was about eight, she was complaining about someone and referred to them as an idiot.

I asked her if she knew what that meant and she looked up at me with those eight year old inocent eyes and said, "is that the same as an a**hole?"

I told her "yes, but idiot would be more age appropriate; use that word."

I can see it, "b*tch now look what you've gotten into"

"you B*stard you did it too"

And then the first lovers quarrel ensued

now thats funny...

She learned it from her mother

well ofcorse us men do not use dthat type of language do we...


no

I do not curse.

But Dru reminded me of a story about my dad when he came home from the navy. He was sitting at the dinner table with his mom, dad and brothers and said, "pass the f***ing butter". His dad laughed spaghetti out his nose and his brothers were cracking up. But his mom just stared at my dad.

Me and my friends use to throw in a L with our cuss words.... Like fluck or shlit lol

That is soooo true. My teaching assistant and I use the word 'February' when we are really frustrated instead of the other F word. But kids on the yard have heard us and asked what it means. We have never told them, but based on our tone of voice they knew we were up to something. Now we hear kids yelling it out in that way (and appropriately too), and it sounds so bad...although they are only saying 'February'.

that's really cute! I use to say foot!! I had my whole softball league saying it. I say freakin a lot and friggin but I don't mean it as the f word! When I say freakin I don't think of it as the f word just another word like oh poop or shoot or something. Ppl get made when people don't just say the f word but freakin to me is not a subsitite for fluck