How far Would You be Willing To Go To Defend Your Woman From Attack ?

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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
sweetowen:

I thought about getting a gun after that, but what use is a gun that's locked in your glove box when you're away from your car? And my daughter was small... I didn't want her finding it...


Um...that's why when I do choose to carry it with me, mine is on my body. And follows the reasoning of part of why I tell women not to carry in a purse. There are more reasons than that, though. hug I've taught concealed carry to women, and would to any woman who wants to do so, and seeks my advice. I've tried it all, and know what works well and what doesn't. wine
immanuelle My city, Zuid-Holland Netherlands
Diamond789: Party hardy !

Yes, perhaps the date should have protected you. By the same token perhaps you frequent the place and men feel free with you ? I see women picked up and hugged sometimes drug back to a dancefloor all of the time at bars.Laughing and giggling they go. Maybe you seemed giggling when you were grabbed but then,,Damn hard to grab a live strong human and take them anywhere without a struggle which would have alerted others to your plight, especially if you really didn't wanna go back in ?


Hi Diamond, wave
Good points. Was my first time in that city and the place, but you are right in that I did not scream out when he picked me up. I did struggle and managed to get myself loose on my own. I wasn't giggling as I was scared. I was just disappointed that my boyfriend made no effort to help at all.

Have a good night.



sambhava Vasteras, Vastmanland Sweden
Well, If I happened to be a Palestinian man trying to defend my woman from attack, I'd go as far as developing an atom bomb and dropping it right over the heads of those responsible! But sadly, the Palestinians can't get their hands on an atom bomb.



Dreamer82 Wahiawa, Hawaii USA

Well, not to brag, but I am the resident Martial Arts exprt. It wouldn't be a problem.thumbs up
In response to: How far Would You be Willing To Go To Defend Your Woman From Attack ?

Diamond

In civilian life I've had a .357 Mag. pulled on me and in another instance, a 12 gauge Shotgun.I'm still here.'Nuff said about those deals.

One late night in Houston Texas my date had to go to the bathroom so we stopped at a gas station that had a Ladies Room on the side of the building.

I had barely noticed an old car stopped in the dark behind the station.
When my date went into the room, three guys stepped out of the old car and headed towards her as she entered the bldg.
I stepped from the car with a large baseball bat and the guys did an abrupt complete about face, climbed back into their car and left.
I gotta big,,,,reward,,,,,from that woman.

If for example, you and your date were out together and somebody or more than one person tried to force themselve's on you and her,would you run screaming like a pussy into the night leaving your date to their fate alone, or try your best to defend her?

Have you defended a date before?

How far would you be willing to go to protect your date?

Do you go armed and ready just in case self-defense is needed ?

If a man or woman jumped out from a dark alleyway with a knife or other weapon and threatened harm to you for your wallet, purse,or her body, what would you do ?

If you were walking on a sidewalk alone or with a date and a rough looking crowd was coming from the other way on the same sidewalk, would you cross to the other side of the street to place yourself between the crowd and your date or risk walking into a possible confrontation of perhaps 5 to 1 odds ?
Remember, running to the opposite side of the street could begin a chase where you could both loose.

If you were enjoying the evening together and an unruly scumwad kept trying to steal your date away, what would you do ?

Any personal experiences in defense or planned defense of a date welcomed here.

For example;
On a late night date a couple of months ago, as my date(woman) and I were walking towards my Jeep, an unruly group of 4 drunken men were jostling each other from the opposite direction while walking towards us..
I placed her behind my left arm and opened my long blade then slid it into the right backpocket of my jeans with the hilt sticking up and out in case I needed to protect us.
I then asked her to angle towards the left with me to place us on the outskirts of the men rather than walk into their center.
She complied and so we skirted the group, she on my left, my righthand and arm close to my knife protecting our right.
The rowdy men started to part so we'd have to pass between them, however we maintained our approach to the left and passed around .
Has the above similar situation ever forced itself on you ?
Remember, regardless of what others might have to say,"your date is your responsibility".
Protect your date and yourself first, then worry about the results later.
Thank you
Truthful advice and experience input needed here.



sambhava Vasteras, Vastmanland Sweden
Wouldn't it be easier dating a feminist? Then if you're attacked you wouldn't have to feel obliged to defend her...
Dreamer82: Well, not to brag, but I am the resident Martial Arts exprt. It wouldn't be a problem.
Kaarot St Julians, Xlokk Malta
Dear Diamond,

I teach martial arts and self defense for women as well. I always preach and teach to avoid the situations as you rightly so have done. But at the same time one should always take precautions and asses the situations as you have well done as well.

On the philosophical part, martail arts is indded not be used as an agression tool but of course the same philosophy says that what we lear should be used only to safe onself, his loved ones, others who cannot save themselves and their own country.

Me myself I d rather die trying to save someone than living with a regret of not helping when I could. So therfore yes, as has happened in my past I would do anything to save my date, or any other helpless for that matter.

Take care people.
(my first post on a forum!) :)




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