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Because their probably not jerks.. They just are from the stand point of the guy who isnt with them. And/or the Girl really doesnt tell you the whole story and she does as much messed up crap to him as he does to her.

To be honest/ fair, we don't know if they are jerks, and some women out there, probably think the same of you, and that's why you aren't taken.


Just saying.

True, also, those girls obviously don't want to be with him, and that's why they are with those other jerks, instead.

Most jerks I dated, were very good for awhile at hiding that fact that they were one, and they are usually very good liars.

I think we are all jerks, but just to different people.

I'm glad that I couldn't care less what people think of me.
Someone is always gonna have some stupid thing to say or always gonna think some stupid thing about you.

Some people may think I'm a jerk but because I don't value their opinions I'm actually the happier for it!

My thoughts alos.

Great minds think alike

I have been called a jerk by many many many many many many many many many ex girlfriends... I believe in majority rule. I try to change this fact, but I believe now that I can't. I suggest to all you single ladies out there.... keep your distance.

My name is Zee and i am a jerk.

zee

Its not that "jerks" are appealing. Women lacking self esteem sometimes stay with the wrong partner out of fear. Fear of being alone, fears about not being good enough, the list can be long.
But remember there are 2 sides to every story.
Blessings

Yep, that one's good !

Because they ask.

I think someone was feeling left out

That's just the way we like it...the jerkier the better...

Off the pity pot...

come over and do summersaults off my couch with me, Hugz?

Look inside, Zee. Reach inside for the good things about you...drag them out and look at them often. Dust them off, and keep them shiny. Now, go find the not good things, and dust them off. Take a real good look at them. Are they really that bad? If they are, accept that they were a part of you, and change them starting now. If they're not, then just accept that you're human and have flaws, and that it's okay to have them. Nobody is perfect. Now...take a look at those good things again. Do they look better?

Zee, from what I've seen of you on here, you're not a jerk. You seem like a pretty good man.

And horrible about looking honestly at themselves. It's all our fault. Relationships take two, and these people can't see that. Or give their half of it.

We are all jerks in someone elses opinion. IMO the idea is to limit myself to the amount of jerks in mine. If someone thinks that I'm a jerk, it's OK, thats their opinion.