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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:14 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
Big_John: I think we are all jerks, but just to different people.
laugh Agreed, John. And when I'm in the wrong mood, I can be one. doh
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zeelanderer Louisville, Kentucky USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:14 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
druidess6308: Look inside, Zee. Reach inside for the good things about you...drag them out and look at them often. Dust them off, and keep them shiny. Now, go find the not good things, and dust them off. Take a real good look at them. Are they really that bad? If they are, accept that they were a part of you, and change them starting now. If they're not, then just accept that you're human and have flaws, and that it's okay to have them. Nobody is perfect. Now...take a look at those good things again. Do they look better?

Zee, from what I've seen of you on here, you're not a jerk. You seem like a pretty good man.


OMG... you want references?.... the list is long.... even one or two from here.

zee
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Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:15 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
druidess6308: Agreed, John. And when I'm in the wrong mood, I can be one.


I work on trying not to be one, but old habits are hard to break.
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takeit4granted new berlin, Wisconsin USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:17 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?

I'm perfectly imperfect yay
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nurcnurc Longwood, Florida USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:24 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
The Jerk was a dance AND a movie. As well as many, many people.
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:26 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
idea Maybe he has a big-----------------------











































bank account..dancing
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Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:28 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
I just want to say thanks heaven some women do date jerks or else I would stay home more nights and read and write on these Threads.
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jvaski south lake tahoe, California USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:30 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
jeremy_leo: Maybe it's just me, but everytime I'm interested in a beautiful woman, she's always taken already by a jerk. This is not just my stand point, but many others including the women themselves say it? Is there something that makes them appealing?

Feeling left out,
A too nice of a guy


YES, Jerks are appealing to women , I have first hand knowlege roll eyes
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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:31 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
zeelanderer: OMG... you want references?.... the list is long.... even one or two from here.

zee
References that you're a jerk? confused Nope. So...if you think you really are one, embrace it or change it. And if you think I care what others think about you, I don't. I don't care what they think about me, so how could I care what they think about you? The first one who has to like you is you.

"I am who I am, and you either like me or you don't."

I just strive to be the best me I can. And yes, there are people who don't like me, too. I just don't worry about how they feel about me...though I do check to see if I did something in particular that I shouldn't have, and apologize and try to rectify it if I did. If not, I carry on with my life. wine

Sorry...I'll get off my soapbox. I just hate to see someone put themselves down. hug
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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:32 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
Big_John: I work on trying not to be one, but old habits are hard to break.
John, why is it I can't see you ever being a jerk? confused hug wine
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Tater springfield, Illinois USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:33 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
<--------- jerk sometimes


but dateless all the timelaugh crying
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Big_John Ocean Springs, Mississippi USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:34 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
druidess6308: John, why is it I can't see you ever being a jerk?


Because I am the mask man when I become jerky....rolling on the floor laughing
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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:34 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
Tater: <--------- jerk sometimesbut dateless all the time
But you are a nice guy so one of these days you will meet a good lady.hug applause wink
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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:36 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
jvaski: YES, Jerks are appealing to women , I have first hand knowlege
No they aren't John, I wouldn't date a real jerk knowingly. I usually find out while on the date when they show their true colors. Then I don't date them again.professor laugh
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:37 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
mylifewithu: No they aren't John, I wouldn't date a real jerk knowingly. I usually find out while on the date when they show their true colors. Then I don't date them again.


I still want to hear about your future hubby...grin
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nurcnurc Longwood, Florida USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:40 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
Because all the really good guys are sitting on their computers posting on forums.









*whispering: I must wipe the brown off my nose*
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Sweet_Sandy Kettle Falls, Washington USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:50 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
we don't know that they are jerks until we get to know them, by that time we get the hope up that they will change or we can change them. It just takes us, or at least me, to figure out that once they are a jerk, they will always be a jerk. hang in there, you will find someone.
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:53 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
Sweet_Sandy: we don't know that they are jerks until we get to know them, by that time we get the hope up that they will change or we can change them. It just takes us, or at least me, to figure out that once they are a jerk, they will always be a jerk. hang in there, you will find someone.


You cannot change anyone but you..wink
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druidess6308 Reverse, Pennsylvania USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 10:07 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
Big_John: Because I am the mask man when I become jerky....
Beef, turkey, or deer? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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mylifewithu Springfield, Missouri USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 10:07 PM CST : Why do women date jerks?
HJFinAZ: I still want to hear about your future hubby...
Well it's like this in 1981 I dated him, the future was 1982 when I married him.tongue tongue tongue
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