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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:51 PM CST : Selfish
Can we play a little game here in CS land??grin

Everyone close your eyes, pretend you are in a nice romantic spot with "THE ONE"....... You are in great anticipation of what is to be.

"THE ONE", looks at you and says, "I would rather be happy than be with you"..wow How do you feel????sigh

Who is the selfish one??doh













I bet this dies quick....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:54 PM CST : Selfish
My ex once told me he would rather spend 1 night with an old crush from high school than a lifetime with me--should have been a sign there,instead waited 19 more years to wake up..Funny thing never forgot those words...sigh
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Tater springfield, Illinois USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:55 PM CST : Selfish
I would say............Damn I am so glad you said aloud exactly what I was thinking, ...Do you mind if I go ahead and call the woman over that would make me happy, so she can take your place?

because you are leaving, RIGHT? laugh

that will piss em' offlaugh
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:56 PM CST : Selfish
tina_olson: My ex once told me he would rather spend 1 night with an old crush from high school than a lifetime with me--should have been a sign there,instead waited 19 more years to wake up..Funny thing never forgot those words...


Oh could I tell some stories..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

But how did you "FEEL"????
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tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:57 PM CST : Selfish
HJFinAZ: Oh could I tell some stories..

But how did you "FEEL"????


How did I feel--very very hurt......
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:57 PM CST : Selfish
Tater: I would say............Damn I am so glad you said aloud exactly what I was thinking, ...Do you mind if I go ahead and call the woman over that would make me happy, so she can take your place?

because you are leaving, RIGHT?

that will piss em' off


I have never found a person, place, or thing that makes me happy.dunno
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HJFinAZ Sun CIty, Arizona USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:58 PM CST : Selfish
tina_olson: How did I feel--very very hurt......


Thank you....hug
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tina_olson Westby, Wisconsin USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:59 PM CST : Selfish
tina_olson: How did I feel--very very hurt......


To add to that--was very young then-nowdays I would have kicked him to the curb in a heartbeat...laugh
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dazzling_dave Waynesboro, Virginia USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 10:56 PM CST : Selfish
HJFinAZ: Can we play a little game here in CS land??

Everyone close your eyes, pretend you are in a nice romantic spot with "THE ONE"....... You are in great anticipation of what is to be.

"THE ONE", looks at you and says, "I would rather be happy than be with you".. How do you feel????

Who is the selfish one??

I bet this dies quick....


Initially, I would be very hurt. If I truly loved that person, I would want her to be happy even if it wasn't with me.
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sassy49senior Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 11:07 PM CST : Selfish

I would of course feel devastated. But you can't make
someone love you or be happy with you, so I would turn
and walk away, where he could not see my tears. I have
a very tender heart and cry easily. crying
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sassy49senior Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 11:10 PM CST : Selfish
HJFinAZ: I have never found a person, place, or thing that makes me happy.





Were you never ever truly happy at anytime with your exes?

What would make you happy as in a relationship or should
I take this to mail? hug
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Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 11:12 PM CST : Selfish
tina_olson: My ex once told me he would rather spend 1 night with an old crush from high school than a lifetime with me--should have been a sign there,instead waited 19 more years to wake up..Funny thing never forgot those words...



Sorry to hear that Tina. People take these unrequited loves and blow them into things they are not Sounds like he didn't deserve you. Hope you find a lovely man on here.hug
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loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 11:15 PM CST : Selfish
Dawn7z: Sorry to hear that Tina. People take these unrequited loves and blow them into things they are not Sounds like he didn't deserve you. Hope you find a lovely man on here.
Hey Dawn I would rather be with you rolling on the floor laughing Joke but your a awsome friendcheers
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Marseilles Somewhere, Indiana USA
Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:41 AM CST : Selfish
If you cannot be happy alone you'll never be happy, period.
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WhatUwish4 Jacksonville, Florida USA
Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:47 AM CST : Selfish
Easy. If I loved him I would want him to be happy.
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loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:51 AM CST : Selfish
WhatUwish4: Easy. If I loved him I would want him to be happy.
Hey Karen how are you doing?I think you are a very cool person and you to Dawn.
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jlw45 duncanville, Texas USA
Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:52 AM CST : Selfish
WhatUwish4: Easy. If I loved him I would want him to be happy.
now, thats not selfish at all.....sad but, not selfishcrying .....laugh theres a song in there, somewherelaugh

wave
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melani Kandy Sri Lanka
Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:56 AM CST : Selfish

A terrible nerve wracking thing to hear at a time so intense. But then, there are the insensitive who would just utter such words without batting a lid.

It would sure be a selfish thing to say, oh but may be, you'll learn not to get affected..... sad flower
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Dawn7z SALEM OR,DENVER CO, Oregon USA
Wed Jan 14, 2009 1:24 AM CST : Selfish
Exactly and what someone says like that may not take away the pain they have inflicted on us most likely by not thinking or out of anger but it sure makes it easier to get over them quicker in the long run. I have a difficult time getting over the wonderful men not the jerks. Sometimes it's difficult to understand why we fall for some of the people we do or put up with their nonsense. Or in my case why some of the men that have been in my life put up with me.dunno
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loverboy690 East Jordan, Michigan USA
Wed Jan 14, 2009 1:26 AM CST : Selfish
Dawn7z: Exactly and what someone says like that may not take away the pain they have inflicted on us most likely by not thinking or out of anger but it sure makes it easier to get over them quicker in the long run. I have a difficult time getting over the wonderful men not the jerks. Sometimes it's difficult to understand why we fall for some of the people we do or put up with their nonsense. Or in my case why some of the men that have been in my life put up with me.
I would put up with you but I'm getting ready forsleep see ya dawn
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