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rasgumby: Big beautiful women is not a correct term to start with.

do they call big fat guys.. *big beautiful men*?

being big does not automatically make one beautiful.
black is black, white is white, skinny is skinny and obese is obese.

sorry.. ripples and rolls of cellulite are not attractive in a guy or a gal.

buzzy: LACali, Start looking at couples and you will notice alot of fit, trim women with fat,beer gut men. Or men who are just lazy pigs. I will quote Joe Thiesman, former NFL quaterback, current NFL analyst. "If we are married men, then we have a responsibility to our spouse and any children to maintain our health. We need to be there to support them in all ways. We can't do that if we are dead." I parapharse. But that is what he said in an interview on ESPN. And that is one of the truths Mr. Pretzelman. And it is one of the truths I believe and live by.

lusciousmile: You have a point there, Ras.

lucky200761: evening smiles

jvaski: For me personally , I find overweight ladies unattractive sexually. Being naked with them isn't something I can visualize.
Not that I'm the perfect example of a man-god . But I make the effort to stay in shape.

But there's someone for everyone out there .
I have a very good friend who is very slender and athletic and he has a very overweight wife for many years . He's happy - and I'm happy they are . To each their own.

It's everyone's choice to keep in shape. And, it should be obvious why men or women wouldn't be sexually attracted to someone who's fat.

lusciousmile: Why do people get surprised, when others don't find 'big' attractive? A million people may say that it's what is on the inside that matters, but i think that's just a fantasy. I would think that, when a person is attracted to you, they are attracted to you as a whole, whether you have three fingers, or no toes. People come as a package, not bits and pieces apart.


We could go on and on and on and on, about this, but the fact still remains, that some people consider looks when chosing a partner. Everyone is different!

Some like big women, some don't, some prefer blondes, some afros. It's not strange to have a preference at all. Personally, i am not surprised when a man says he likes a bigger or smaller woman than i am. It's just life, and i wouldn't lose any sleep over it.If you are comfortable being big, then that's what matters, and you will find a man who prefers YOU. If you feel insecure because of your weight, then do something about it.

Shirley49WV: Truer words were never spoken Luscious. Their is someone for everyone. Some like it hot and others cold.

mike69spain: I like it hot.

And a little chubby.
And a little exotic.
But most of all, I like her sharp wits and tongue, they burn flesh if tried.

I like my gal, as she is, with all she brings with her.

Magic of life.

Shirley49WV: My thoughts exactly. When I first joined here I posted along the

same lines as the OP. Since then things have changed in my

life and how I view myself. Sure I could loose some weight. And

I do have a very inactive thyroid as well. I am on a high dose

of synthroid. But I am not using that as a crutch or an excuse

for being over weight. I have over come so many issues, so I

have to take it one thing at a time. But the most important

one was to love myself. I could care less what someone else

thinks right now. I am doing all I can right now to improve my

life. One step at a time.

fleur_di_li: I know alot of guys skip profiles where the photo shows a full figured woman, why is this? Do big men suffer the same way with women? I believe personality is what is important not looks! Will be interested to see what you all think and if you have had similar experiences.

buzzy: Truth is as you see it. My truth is based on my life experiences and the things I have learned and meditated on. Your truth is different, after all you come from a different background than I. However, the things I will share with Fleur are truths based on years of research. The same truths that have changed my life permanently.

buzzy: And that sweetheart is what it is all about. Loving yourself and being happy. Happy for you! Another truth for you Mr. Pretzelman.

pretzelman: But was that YOUR truth or a truth. I happen to agree with it, so is it my truth, your truth, her truth or is it just TRUTH

Tater: People are attracted to who they are attracted to

pretzelman: so then you are saying that your truths may not be HER truths.

Curious, what research you did though. Is this research you did in college, work related? Just curious about the research. Thanks

buzzy: A more intelligent life form will take over.

mike69spain: The truth is out there...

Shirley49WV: I have nothing else to say on this subject. I just hope that everyone finds the love that they are looking for.