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No...Honestly, I feel good about every relationship that I had even though they each ultimately failed ...............

And, I know in my heart that each of those relationships failed because each of those women caused all the problems .....

I get kinda HOT thinking about those words .......

My Parents taught us you had to have both of these quailities or the relationship would not survive.

To me, it is like this:

You can love a person as a friend. This is just a simple love and respect but it would not go any further. The person is on par with and similar to the love you have for your, sibling or pet.

If the friendship deepens and grows into something more then, you find yourself wanting, waiting, looking forward to sharing all things with that person. Then this if it is mutual grows into Being in Love and unable to imagine shariing life with anyone else. You would sacrifice your life for that person without hessitation.


It is Imprtant to always Love your Mate not only as your Mate, (In Love) but also as your Best Friend, (Love) because you have to not only work on the Love you have as Mates, but also keep the friendship Strong as the foundation for your Marriage.

Many people lose sight of this and they say I Love Him/Her but I Can't stand Him/Her. They forgot how to love as friends to keeep the background of their relationship alive. JMO

1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient , love is kind , It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, It is not rude, It is not self seeking , it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs, Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with truth, Love never fails!!!!!!

That is what i find to be Love !


In Love is : (((((Putting it to use))))) with the one of you dreams!!!!!!!!!

In my opinion, "In love" is the precursor to "Love", but I don't believe it's limited to just the beginning...

Or maybe it's too early to coherently finish this thought process... Need more coffee...