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I know the feeling big time, this is me

I just we have to wait and see. I've been divorced a long time now and starting to get use to being alone..oh well God has his path for us and we have to deal with it.

Sorry I hope you find someone.

Take care
Celeste

cuz most men are only looking for 1 thing

i know that feeling. I have been single most of my life and just when i think i have found the right person for me they turn out to be jerks. I'm tried of being single but i want someone who want something out of life and for some reason it is hard to find someone that does.

I find it goes both ways but seeing that women tend to be more of the stable type its easier sometimes for men to find descent women. You have to determine as well what type of personality you attract. Also remember the people change. I dont believe in that caught up in the moment thing cause when the emotions and cloud 9 feelings die down the real person begins to emerge.

As it is now I am enjpying the single life. I travel just about every week and I meet people. God knows I would love to have someone by my side but until I think I found them I'll just remain the way I am.

I have been dome the same way.The only exception is my present ex, who is a good person.We just don't see eye to eye on how to raise our son.I grew up in a military family, and she grew up in a hippy one...lol...
Women are just as suspetible to being bad people as men are.There is no "Man is worse" "Woman is worse" to it really.Human beings are inheirently flawed.That's just the way the world works.

I honestly believe you could just change the word guy to girl and mr to ms its the same diference. Seems people want in a relationship and once inside the grass is greener on the other side. People tell me I'm looking in the wrong place but really it usually happens when we are not looking. I'm thinking there is something inside people myself included that pops out after being in a relationship. Hopefully we can figure it out or recognize it before its to late.

it's really hard to find someone when you have expectations that are so high they can't be met.i just preferr honesty and communication. you do have to have the chemistry as well

It seams simple to me, decide to make better choices. Give that guy a chance whom you wouldnt normaly go out with. And reject the ones you normaly would. Hope this makes sence....

there is no simple answer to this question but, if you give out negative vibes then you will get negative ones back.
maybe you could also rethink about whether the "relationship" becomes a physical one from the beginning or just be friends first.
in other words keep them guessing, then if they are serious you should know. as we say here hang on to the keys to the sweet shop [candy store] till you know how deep the water is.

As an honest man ill relate whay i know..Picking a mate, no matter what the reason is like selecting a good career..We should make an attempt to find out about the person and their past before getting involved..We all deserve a chance, but at the same time deserve to be happy and have someone we trust and can reply on..Many good men around, it just took us along time to become that, and now were to old for you young and beautiful ladies...God Bless.

I just think relaxing is the best thing dont be so anxious about a relationship happening. Good luck all

I think most decent woman seem to attract the type of guy that never really want much out of a relationship.

I have been divorced for 6yrs now and dated only a few guys they have all been selfish or hateful toward woman in general.

As hard as it seems if the good woman will wait and be patient the true Gentlemen will come to us in due time.