Connecting Singles^® Arizona Forums

Never give up and never surrender!!!!!!!!!!

There has to be descent, caring and loving women out there that’s not mean, cheating, heartless and so very curl.


There just has to be. Right????

Yes there are Nice Women in Arizona but i know for certain this woman has seen the BAD and yet to See the Good in a Man from AZ.

That being said sweeite it goes both ways for men as well woman it just takes time and keep it real and it should happen .


ok no for the HIJACK of your Thread.......

if a man on here cant even post a current photo or tell the truth about even the smallest of things and then expects a woman to just fall head over heels for them well ...... It just doent happen in the real world.

I think that CS can be a great tool for Singles ,,, but also those people on this site and others like it . have either been Burned by lies and half or un Truths ..... then to have to go throuhg the horor of having it placed in the forums or private mails is enough to make MOST Lurk cuz Who NEEDS THAT !.

I know what you mean about recent photos and it is not fair to deceive people by using old photos.
My pictures are 3 to 4 months old tops.
Sometimes if you like the person for who they are no matter what they look like, that can be overlooked but for the most part I agree with you.
I also agree that nothing personal should be aired out over the forums.
I say take it to personal mail.

Rob Your photo's i do know are recent but far to often that is not the case with alot of peeps on here.
Maybe when i get back to AZ next week we can hook up and play a lil pool Im just not looking to hard for the same things as you but damn i can be a friend

yes I would hope that the personal attacks can just stop it's running ramped all through the forums lots of good ppl getting ripped apart

See the REAL is Believing if a person cant show the real them as in Right Now or at least with in a few months then that tells Me to beware

hang in there homie i use o think the same way and yes there are it will all work out in time dont worry.

are their any gals out there that are around the age of 18 to 21 who are loking for a sweet guy. like me.

There are nice people everywhere and if you believe that you'll find plenty of them every day. But it's virtually impossible to 'connect' with someone on a deeper emotional level through email by looking at a profile and pictures. The best way to meet people is to do what you love to do. If you find friends or a relationship that way, - great! and if you don't well you had a good time anyways.

Also I've noticed that a lot of people who do internet dating are not ready for a relationship even though they're lonely and want one. So hiding behind a computer is 'safe' for them. It relieves some of their loneliness to know that someone of the opposite sex is interested in them and an email relationship is perhaps all they can handle at the moment. That doesn't make them a 'bad' person. It just means that they're not ready.

Personally I will not waste my time starting a 'relationship' by email. If someone doesn't want to talk on the phone or go out for coffee after a couple of emails they're not really serious about finding a 'real' relationship.

I've done a lot of internet dating in the past and here's what I found. You might spend 3 months building a relationship online only to find out there's no attraction when you finally meet them.

May you all find the love and happiness you're searching for.

AZromantic

yeah, we're here but what age group you lookin for?

i could ask the same thing, its hard to pick the nice guys from the pigs, and the nice women from the .....pigs lol whats a girl(guy)to do to find a real person, ?careing and true,faithful

Mid to late 40's

But anxious cares the pensive nymph opressed, And secret passions labored in her breast, not youthful kings in battle siezed alive, not scornful virgins who had their charms survive, nor ardent lovers robbed of all their bliss. Not ancient ladies when refused a kiss.

Well I agree, most of the quote "women" are someone asking for money and getting you on IM so they can get you to "trust" them in a day or two,then ask you for money for a hotel room LOL The quality women? heck I haven't found any in Phoenix, Its tiring and annoying, I am a nice sincere guy... all I am looking for is a friend first, is that so wrong??

oooPS! I meant a hotel room in africa because their employer hasnt paid them yet,

yea i hear ya Iam lookin for the same, just want a friend right now and if it prodress's from there....great and if it doesn't at least i made a new friend

ever heard that nice guys finish last im going to list some stuff here you tell me if you do any of the following things.

1.) you do every thing the ladies tell you to do?
yes or no

2.) buy the ladies gifts all the time?
yes or no

3.) you ask to do something before you do it?
yes or no

4.) you cant look a woman in the eyes for longer than 10 sec.?
yes or no

to say your looking for a friend first is just a lie. you want sex so first figure out what you want(lust ,friend ,and then love , is the way it works). and now to the list above if you sed yes to any of them or even a maybe, your a wuss and thats why girls are mean to you just for the simple fact your not a challenge. the ladies will not wast there time on a wuss.

1.) no or a maybe: you have no idea what you are doing and need to figure that out

2.) no or a maybe: your trying to buy a womans affections does not work so stop do it for her birthday and x-mas flowers are ok every once and a wile.

3.) no or a maybe: screams im insecure and don't know what to do.

4.) no or a maybe: no self confidence aka wuss.

After numerous "dating sites" some free and some paid for, I'm ready to throw the towel in too Saguaro. I'm looking for the same thing you are and can't seem to find him. I'm not ugly, yet not a raving beauty either, have an outgoing personality.

Maybe either of you can answer a question honestly..what's wrong with my profile that there is no interest??? What am I doing wrong?

I don't need a man in my life, though I'd like one to share it with.

feel free to email me privately if you don't want to post.

Thanks!

Nice guys don't finish last, nice guys get f&$%#d first! The trick is to not let it happen a second time. As for friends, we all start out as friends, in one form or another...

Hmmm...maybe the key is to look for a fake lying cheater. What you'll find are nothing but nice, good people. Just like that old trick of looking in the last place first...cuz that's where it'll always be.