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so like i have been lookin for a girl since i moved here in 05 and so far it hasnt been going well at all

so i started a few of these dating websites which again has been bad. i send messages to ppl i would like to meet and they never respond and when they do and i try to meet up they just seem to bail everytime. whats up with everyone smoking? it bothers me since i have bad asthma and i just cant stand it. do i need to just deal with it? course being around second hand smoke didnt exactly help either. so girl and or guys do any of these sites actually give results?

To get a girl in Arizona:
1. Show up on time (and do show up...)
2. Have a vehicle (cabs in Az. are too damn expensive).
3. Have a fun personality (there's alot of fun things to do in Az.).
4. Treat her like a lady (no like a "one-night-stand").
5. Be honest and sincere (a lot of men here do lie a lot. But the honest ones are out there somewhere in Az.).
6. You have to like to travel (some women do live a little farther away here in Az. and some men too).