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Hello, I am an AZ native, and yes it seems that way, I've found it difficult to met and greet here in this era, most men are looking out only for themselves, and admittedly guys like myself (not boasting) lose respect from the ladies for being honest. I read your profile and thats not the issue for you to worry about :)

Well, thank you. I just can't seem to find the one that wants to have me in their life. I guess I'm just too outgoing for a lot of them. I'm just not the sit at home type, never has been. I like to chill, but I'd rather do it at a bar where I can talk to someone, during the day, and have something to do, you know...

Meet me on Whiskey Row....

I did read your profile, but you're really not my type. I don't think you could keep up with me. You're a little weird to me. Sorry.

Somebody who lies about his age, is too damn sarcastic, or weird will never see me. I don't like those. And he's one of the ones I was just talking about too.

Are we judgemental???

No not really. But I just don't like when people put just anything about themselves (and it's not true) on their profiles. Why can't you give out your real age and such?? See, to me that's hiding something and I don't like secrets, lies, and people that hide something about themselves. That's all.

Well, dear lady, I did not lie, I just ommited the truth. MY age (and such) do not make me who I am. I and many others like who I am. I am blessed to have several younger persons that never had a father adopt me. I am loved, there is no doubt in my mind. Every night I lay my head on the pillow and have no doubt as to how much I am loved.

I also call a spade a spade, I call it the way it is and I really do not care if others like it. I am not here (on earth) to try and impress anyone. I have no need to impress anyone. What I do is reach out to help others in any way I can and I do it often..

I'm not here to impress every single person either. Be who you are, I don't care. Some lady out there will like that kind of attitude of yours. It's all cool, dude...

Omit the , unless it is coffee!!! And, you may wish to allpy the following, they work wonders..

The Six Commandments


1. Do not build walls, for they are dangerous, learn to transend them.
2. Live in the moment, for each one is precious and not to be squandered.
3. Take care of yourself first & foremost.
4. Drop the ego. Be real. And see what happens.
5. All things are possible, all the time.
6. Maintain Universal Flow. When someone gives, it is an act of generosity to receive. For in giving, there is something gained.

Actually,that would be "apply"..

And precisely, how would you truly know my attitude?? Your perception is totally wrong!!

I'm always real, always have fun, and I always respect other peoples needs and wants. I'm probably the most truthful person in this damn town of Prescott Valley. That's why I belong back in Phoenix. I have never been fake about myself, always find time to have fun, and I have had some bad dates in the past, but I respect them and they respect me.

Very wise words ......... especially #3 because if you don't no one else will.

Wise words from a wise man.

Well I'm very sarcastic so count me out :P

Not all of us are heartbreakers.....rather there are some that have been broken and some whom haven't even opened their hearts as of yet.

AZ suffers form a terminal dissposable condition.

In short it's perhaps one of the most selfish and backwards states in the country.
not that anyother state is anybetter off this day and age.

The Trick is not to buy the hype most of us men spit and from what ive seen my gender has got some of the biggest silver tounges ever.

but take time to filter out the hype and you will find the truth...sad part is if you had to dig through the hype what you find as truth is usally very very dissapointing and even more common hurtfull.

But i return to the initial statement Not all of us in AZ are Heartbreakers. this much I can say for sure...at least on my end

This is pretty rare with people in general. I don't think it is just men that are heart breakers, I think when you are this way your heart gets broken a lot. I see myself very similar to you, and always end up being my dates psychologist and then they turn around and go right back to the people that hurt them in the first place when they had someone caring and compassionate right before them.

I'm sorry to read that things went poorly for you. Perhaps you'll share more about what else they had in common other than breaking your heart or tell how it all went down.