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Are many singles just players looking to live large now instead of seeing long term qualities in the other person:

If you had to chose just ONE quality in the other person:

What quality would you chose as your number one priority:




More party time and spend money now (living large)


or


More (Down to earth)everyday living quality time having your match as your friend


On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 is a fashion model)
How would you rate your looks.

If I had to choose, I would choose "more down to earth everyday living quality time having your match as your friend"

My looks? TEN BABY!!! hahaha

Really, though, I think I would rate my looks as a five or something--average!

Lets see, the number priority in a woman is to me her sense of humor. and playfulness which can kind of be categorized under sense of humor too.
I would rank myself on looks a 5 but have been told by women that im handsome, they say its the way i carry myself i dunno?

Down to earth definitely!! As for the looks I have been told Im a 6 but that is coming from someone that knows me inside and out and is considered a combo number of my heart and looks. Bill

i was a 10 now im like a 7

i was a 10 now i am like a 7. i would deffentily rather live LARGE .all the way

Seriously, I think im maybe a 5 or a 6.

Down to earth....

I would rate me as a ten, but of course I love myself, but others would rate me as a 5 or 6

Mary

what made you go from a 10 to a 7

It appears to me that most are out for the player part...this is fine if we are both on the same page. I would like to party and spend money now until I find the down to earth guy that will take me as I am...the complete package! Was a 10 once a long, long time ago...Now just happy to be breathing! Gotta go....Time to take my Geritol!

It seems that a lot are looking for quickies, ah, I mean are just players. Living for the moment not looking at the long term. If I had to chose a quality in the other person, it would be to be non-judgemental. What quality would I chose? More party time/spend money now or Down to earth? Ummmm, can't I have both? I would rate myself as a 6.