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Longtex
Anaheim, California USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2007, 3:27 PM CST
Why is it that women say they want a nice good guy but they really want a bad guy? And it goes the other way as will. Can anyone answer it?dunno
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RabbitMage
Fresno, California USA
Posted: Jul 12, 2007, 1:25 PM CST
I'd venture to guess it's got something to do with people not knowing what they want. Or that people are so used to treating themselves like crap that they want a partner who will do the same. There's an allure to the bad boy/girl thing, too. Or maybe daddy never loved them enough...Freud, where are you?

Personally, I don't get it either.
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hiphopHONEY
santa barbara, California USA
Posted: Jul 27, 2007, 3:31 PM CST
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Why is it that women say they want a nice good guy but they really want a bad guy? And it goes the other way as will. Can anyone answer it?
well I be honest it all depends how how much of each...

As far as good guy...someone that respect a lady, treats her right, shows her love...etc
As far as bad guy...someone that can take control, naughty in bed, strong mans man...etc


no women wants a boy and if you're too sweet and caring as in too much a good guy you dont seem like a very strong MAN and we want that too its also sensual which i guess prob comes from being a bad guy

I guess we want of both worlds

Men want that two...a lady on the streets but a freak in the bed....right?
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hiphopHONEY
santa barbara, California USA
Posted: Jul 27, 2007, 3:32 PM CST
..sorry that last two was suppose to be a too blushing laugh
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aquiestoy56
Garden Grove, California USA
Posted: Aug 1, 2007, 6:34 PM CST
HipHop you are right...goes both ways!
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lonelyhart78
wynne, Arkansas USA
Posted: Aug 1, 2007, 9:48 PM CST
well unless your like me who can be in one room of 100 guys for exsmple and find the one realy bad guy. hmmm i wonder if it is the the way i think of my self?
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Janky
San Diego, California USA
Posted: Aug 6, 2007, 4:48 AM CST
Very few people will actually tell you they want to meet a really "bad" guy/girl. It just inevitably happens. Imo, people aren't bad or good. They may do nice or mean things but actions don't always accurately represent the content of one's character. I know I'm stating the obvious, but it seems relevant.
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