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Many of you would say, yes indeed, I'd say no. It's easy to believe love exists because of movies like Twilight or The Notebook. They are just movies. I don't wanna sound negative but nowadays love is understood from a different point of view. When I fall in love deeply, I give 100%, If I gonna do something, I do it right. That might be the problem, giving the best of you, giving everything is a lethal weapon; I really believe no woman is in the same page I am. What's wrong being romantic? What's wrong calling your girlfriend when you feel bad or depressed because you had a terrible day at work and need some support? What's wrong thinking of driving at 7am on a weekday to her place and handing her her favorite cup of coffee from Starbucks as a surprise ??Having a relationship when everything is romance it might sounds awsome but real love is shown when the couple is going trhu problems and the key is to work them out together. Many times I think love is not for me due the fact women are not in the same page I am, among some other million of reasons. Im not perfect and nobody is, you must remember when you are in a relationship there's must be balance all the time. For ex: if you are on top of details, if you call her when she's sick, if you are there for here when she might feel down for anything, you'd expect kind of the same thing from her to you. Im not trying to say we must give thinking we must always receive. It's about common sense and justice. When you give 100% of your heart to someone, your girlfriend must do the same on her way of course otherwise, there's not balance and the relationship will fall apart sooner or later. Life is so unffair but I guess there's nothing you can do. I've been criticised so much for being a romantic man and for giving all my best and sweet feelings when I fall in love. Guess what???? I don't give a s... what other people think, Im a honest man, romantic and the woman who wants to be with me must like it and live with it the same way I'd accept her character, but please stop playing with our feelings and dreams. I thought my hapiness arrived to my life but I was wrong, everything was a dream I woke up .I met her here in CS, (we decided to be engaged)everything was perfect, I felt the happiest man of the world, the princess of my dreams loved me, til one day I had a bad day at work and felt pretty bad, during that sunday I tried to do my best, we had a little fight like any couple ( no physicall damage at all) she told me to give her 3 days to think and then she ended up our commitment and relationship without asking my opinion or the option to work it out. well, she had done that if she loved me . A few days after she broke up with me (without any reasonable or logical explanation) by phone not even in person to show some respect for me as a human being, she logged in in this site looking for a another man and still a member of CS. All promises she made me, letters, words, actions were fantasies or bunch of lies, at this point I don't know, Im telling the truth and I have every single evidence to proove it but Im a gentleman and I won't say her name. Im doing this to warn you guys, don't believe at first, take your time, here are a lot of players, liers, selfish persons who don't care to make serious expectations to you and then when you feel on the top of the world of happiness, she kicks you out of her life because in her selfish mind she's done with you and bored. I don't pretend to be dramatic and if I am, I don't give a d.... Im pretty sure million of men are wondering the same: Why a devoted man like me got this ending???? I was always loyal to her, never lied, I was and im a gentelman, I'll never understand it, if someone has the answer please let me know , I have so much love to give and no woman gets it, no woman appreciate it ! Thanks for reading!
Alexguitar