Ladies this is towards you

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CyPeR Centennial, Colorado USA
Sat Sep 29, 2007 1:58 PM CST : Ladies this is towards you
What am I supposed to do in order to get a woman to look my direction. I know there are subtle things that I could do that would not make me look desperate (other than doing this online crap!) and actually make me more noticable. And I know that there is a problem in what I ask because in my eyes there are 2 types of females: Bitches and Women. Sadly enough, both types all flock together and it is hard to distinguish between an actual woman and a bitch. So all of the non-bitches out there (if they have the time) should tell me what I need to do to actually get a woman that is worth it to notice me. This is other than just not trying because who am I trying to kid... I need someone. Problem is, I don't even know where to look anymore dunno and it is starting to make me believe that the only girls that are good enough are already taken. What's going on here? All of this is so damn confusing it'd be easier to buy a damn blow up doll... but that's just sick barf and borderline... indecent! So my only option is to look for an ACTUAL woman that isn't going to lie. I know guys lie, but women do it too, guys just get caught in it more. So pretty much give me some sort of advice, be as mean as you want if that is what your here for, I'm just running out of ideas. Which is very obvious because I'm on a website asking for help... can you say pathetic? Ha Ha Holla!
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evenstar22 windsor USA
Wed Oct 10, 2007 9:40 PM CST : Ladies this is towards you
Hummm, I agree that it is hard to find a good person who isn't taken. Sometimes it is beneficial to look for people who aren't perfect. Whether that be in their physical appearance or intellectually. My suggestion is be friends and then the girl will come around if she is right for you! Sorry i'm not much help, honey.
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Dragoness Denver, Colorado USA
Wed Oct 17, 2007 10:21 PM CST : Ladies this is towards you
My only advise is be patient. I am trying this because the men I have been meeting at the singles clubs and such are just not right. So here I am. It is not easy for either side. Be yourself and frienship is really important. If you try to rush things it will make it harder on both parties, just meet females and make friends and see what happens. Good luck. Hope this helped some. comfort
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joseph123 aurora, Colorado USA
Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:33 AM CST : Ladies this is towards you
I know you are asking the ladies.. But you should seriously can the whole "thug life" look, and mentality. This might sound attacking towards you (and it probably is), but honestly I can't stand other guys pretend to be gangsters, and talk like they're from the hood.

I don't think many women would enjoy developing a relationship with a guy who has an "image" to maintain. If there is a relationship there it won't last long. Especially if you live/act like a thug, and are in and out of jail all the time. Doesn't sound like a very enjoyable lifestyle for either party.

It's also advisable to stay away from women in bars and especially clubs, I've learned over the years, it just leads to trouble later on.

Next thing you know you're paying child support for some chick you met one night in a club, that turns around to be a whopping whore, sleeping with every guy she meets in a club, leaving the kid with you, or her relatives so she can go out and drink and screw some more guys..

The goal is to NOT attract the wrong person.
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greatkissinglips sterling, Colorado USA
Thu Apr 16, 2009 10:22 AM CST : Ladies this is towards you
I agree, don't act so desperate in front of a lady, just be your self, You will never find a gal in a bar scene, anyway not the kind you want, and remember no one is perfect, so forget about finding the perfect person, Men and women pick up on the vibes believe me. That's why being just yourself is good, she/him is going to find out anyway, comfort Be positive, know what you want, have confidence, and stick to it, with over 30 million singles in the USA alone, there out there,

There are lots of shy men and women out there, so you have to keep that in mind, even just smiling at them, can be a start, the eye contact is so important, and body language. wow Nope don't even go there with the lies. She will find out and that will screw that up. A man trying to be someone they are not is a big turn off also, and someone who just talks the whole first date. Big turn off, But most of all, find out about yourself, and your past, fix that, love yourself first, heal yourself first, then your ready to find the love of your life, your young you have plenty of time...heart beating
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RedLyonyss Denver, Colorado USA
Sat May 30, 2009 10:49 AM CST : Ladies this is towards you
I agree with evenstar22. You got to be able to look at less than perfect you may be surprised. Nothing in life is black and white or for that matter bitches/women. For that matter if I was dating or getting to know you and I found out out you felt that way I would prob run. I figure being mortal I would at some point make a mistake and go from one catagory to the other.

Also when asking for advice or a girl try not to inult the person you are talking to. After all I (and every one you asked) is on this website too, and I don't beleive I am pathetic, just curious.
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alexguitar Centennial, Colorado USA
Wed Aug 19, 2009 12:36 PM CST : Ladies this is towards you
The problem in this site most women claim to be smart, "Loyal" and from my personal experience they are not like that, no one replay emails, doesn't respect our time,I had a serious relationship with a gal from this site and guess what??? she played with my feelings, a few days after she broke up with me without any reason ( by phone not even in person) she logged in on this site again and still logging ( wow I really meant something to her) now Im totally screwed with my heart, she gave me expectations that everything was perfect , after many times she told me she loved me that I was the perfect man to her that we will have a life together, blah blah blah, lies, lies . Well I decided to logg in too, it's fair isn't it??? All was a lie, so my advice my friends, don't trust easily on any woman here, you must be very very very careful because all they look is a perfect body, perfect face, with money, etc however, we must keep looking because special women must be somewhere out there! thanks
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