Connecting Singles^® Colorado Forums

The Colorado thread isn't very happening. I have had luck in making friends through the International forums. I have not dated anyone from this site but am really only trying to talk to people and if there is a good connection make a friend in person. Good luck out there.

Not here or anywhere. Although i'm not new to much of anything...I am new to this site...guess i'm not giving up, yet. lol

Because the women on this site arent interested in meeting a man, they are gamers on this sight, if you look at past most women on this sight are the same ones day in and day out, always online chatting and checking out the same profiles.,.

Some of us are here to talk to people in the International Forums. I am here for that, to meet people as friends and to post some of my writing. I am on this site a lot because I enjoy the people I have chatted with for the last six months. Yes there are gamers out there but not everyone is.

Nope... I don't know what it is either. I've been on all of these dating sites... from the mundane (you can't use their functions as a non-paid member - only use limited cheesy flirts) to a few that are supposedly totally free... AND even so-called 'Christian' ones.

They're all the same in the long run. Nobody on there knows what they want. They say they do, but they don't. No one seems to know what commitment is. It's either a fast hook-up, if you are lucky, or nothing. And if you make the hook-up, get dumped the next day. Very many of them just play on our emotions and feelings. That's the sick socialists for you, because they are all registered on all the different sites out there.

Now I know that doesn't speak for everybody... there are good ones out there I'm sure, and they probably are not online on dating sites. It seems that it's all just browse city and see who's out there. A lot of them even state it. Some stay online with it all the time, most don't come back for weeks or months. Doesn't seem to be many on here either.

No, no luck all across the board. It's really become a complete waste of time. ...AND... I certainly don't know what's up with Colorado women. I've gotten more hits from out-of-state and overseas, than here. I have a decent profile, and Nada! Boils down to being too picky for something you don't know you want and don't want to take the time to develop things, I guess. That's what it certainly seems like.

I joined because of the fact you can see what a person is like before talking to them. And also partially because you're out there for others to see, I have to agree, this site has been a waste of time from the stand point of Colorado. Women on these sites generally don't initiate conversations because guys outnumber the ladies to the point they don't have to.

Buuuuutttttt. Thats how it is in real life too. I've probably only been asked out 4 times in my life. Every other woman I've been interested in, I had to make the move because they wouldn't. And if I'm guna stick around somewhere I'm supposed to make the move, I at least want a place I know I'll get a response.

I would honestly prefer to walk up to a woman who is standing with her friends. And get turned down in front of a group... then just be ignored.

Nope, I've had no luck

I've lived in Colorado since 1967, back when it was still a nice place. I had no problem getting dates when I was younger, I guess Woman in my age group are single for a reason. I really belive the type of woman I'm looking for very rarely gets divorced....their men know what they have. I am pickey in what I'm looking for, but I really don't care, like they say..their are worse things then being single

Haha, Wow.. You pretty much said it all! I've met maybe 3 people on this site in the last 4 years in person, plus I've talked to numerous others on this site via phone.

Met one gal who's currently still a Denver, Colorado member on this site, who claims to be single, but is actually cheating on her loyal husband who's currently in serving his country in Iraq... what a piece of work...

Some of the members are decent that live too far away, but most truely don't know what they want, and thrive on high schoolish drama.. Or they're extremely fat, and were expecting a hot stud to whisk them away with their 2 kids.

Now I am not a shallow guy by any means, but ladies, please... If you know you're not exactly the most desirable dish on the site, get rid of your high expectations, cause the majority of us are just out there looking for a companion.

Speaking of potentially desirable women, I see these nice looking gals with these very specific profiles attracting garbage men, with nothing other than prior criminal records, and their stds to deliver to them. Good luck with that. Hope you can change them. (Evil Laugh)

Sometimes I just wish people would be more descriptive, and honest about themselves in their profiles, to save me the time, if I decide to contact them.

Message to all men who aren't unemployed losers:
Profiles with key words like: likes to party, likes to drink, likes to smoke weed...Avoid these and save yourself the time, Because partying, dancing, clubbing, drinking, and using drug will get you far in life..(being facetious obviously) Good luck finding a job that pays more than $7.50 an hour.

Wow, yeah thats pretty messed up... cheating on a soldier of all people. Of course a good way to spot people who just want to party and are on here to use people. They make themselves sound as perfect as possible. I at least tell people I'm divorced, which really should prove I have sincerity or why wouldn't I just lie about that.

*Shrug*

I find the more motivated and smart ladies attractive anyhow. I've spoken with some pretty awesome people on this site recently. They are out there, even local.

Ok i know I'm late on this one but i thought i was being honest in my profile. AND yes i do have 3 out there on different sites but i have yet to meet anyone i fully trust.

Far as the dip shit cheating on a soldier. She should get caught and divorced and lose everything. Cheat on anyone is wrong and so stupid.

I'm on here in hopes of finding someone to be my friend first then maybe work into things. I don't need to jump right into a relationship with someone i don't even know..

Anyways that's my 2 cents on it.

I hope you all found what you were looking for here or maybe another site.

GypsyDawn

Really I don't have much faith in internet dating period! Most of it if you pay make sure you read all the fine print! Cuz a lot of times they won't let you ever give any personal info address phone number even a general area!

And you joined a dating site for what reason? To meet some one? Ha the joke is on you! Even if you meet some one you think you really click with the more frustrated you will be! Some of your posts are flagged automatically and any personal info is deleted! Or you entire message might be deleted! Look all you want but don't try to connect!

Look at their perspective if you hook up they lose a member and the money you spend on their site every month! Their job is to keep you placated and dumb and keep you coming back! Well maybe I will do better next month? And always just before you are about to say enough or if you do quit! Suddenly "you've Got mail" sometimes they will fake that some one is interested in you! I have seen all the tricks it is all about psyching you out of more and more of your money and keeping you in their Data-base!

And how many of their big numbers of members are actually currant? And how many are profiles that never got deleted?

There are ways to find out who is a real or currant member and those that are fake! Write a general form letter and cut and paste to all the men or women you see that you might be interested in and send it. And wait for a responses!

No responses at least you know who not to waste any more time on a profile that is a DEAD Profile! The more sleezy pay sites are like this many times but many so called average looking dating sites do this to! Or you may see several profiles of the same person! That alone should send up a red flag that something is not right!

Im in the Springs....no...I have better luck at Whole Foods and Safeway

Im in the Springs....no...I have better luck at Whole Foods and Safeway

Sorry to say, I have been on here about 3 weeks and nothing not one email. :(

You are right mate I haven't had any luck and be careful people here are not totally honest we must be very selective.

you are totally right, and most women say they are caring and educated,they never want to chat with you, they never response an email even to tell you she doesn't want to talk to you, they are looking a hollywood star with money without paying attention to our feelings, they give you a lead and then they kick you out without any reason, it's hard to find a honest woman here but it's not imposible.

100% agreed, mostly women here are just to play with our feelings and they mention in their profile they want a serious relationship does that make sense??????, lies, lies, lies and more lies, it happened to me on this site. But you are right , some sincere, LOYAL and HONEST women might be out there.