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I try to be, no I am honest when I chat with other people and my profile is what it is, but so far , not all, It"s like a game of reeling you in and then the bomb drops. If you cannot be honest upfront, go to a bar and find someone there. I thought we were all adults, have had our own experiences and was ready to move on to better things. Games are for children. Are there any real m,en and honest ones out there

I don't understand what you mean. Do you mean that once you message someone they ask you for sex? Or they are married? Or are they axe murderers? Explain please.

Perhaps she's had two weeks of driving to a date only to find no one there as I had.

^^^^No way! that sucks!

Sure does!

Well, I have been lied to about age; stood up after driving 30 miles to meet a guy I had been chatting with for a week or so; tried to be scammed by a man who after chatting with him and then he started asking me for money for some cause or something; so ladies be careful when they start asking for money... When I wrote my profile, I was honest and to the point. I have nothing to hide and will answer honestly and if honesty is not what you want then I am the wrong woman for you. I just was upset and felt that just because I am blonde, actually strawberry blonde that they thought I am dumb, well guess what... I am not and i will also not give up.Not all men are deceiving and besides if you are don't even bother.

Men that ask for money? LOL sad.

I've got my own.

Sucks that you got baboozled like that. :(

Yes it does especially when i am a single mother who is quite financially set. I do not need to support another man or be his mommy.

And do everyone watch out for the vetrinarian from Mason's Island. He's a real piece of work what with being "stuck in Africa" and out of money story.

^^^Yeah I just got a message from a girl "trapped" in african hospital. LOL

and watch out for married men going through a divorce they don't tell the truth either. A scammer from Nigera just tried to con me. Why do they think blondes are dumb?

They just have to learn that most blondes aren't dumb the hard way.

See I told you unfortunately you have to be careful. Hope all is well with you..Deb

true you are right Its time to get real and grow up life is too short to play mind games Cheers to you Love4Life64

Thank you and best to you in your search

wow you must've ran into someone from nigeria they are good for asking for money after the tragic accident..l

I can't even believe that I replyed to this thread and it was 2 months old I mean WTF don't they erase after some meaning full time? ok embarassed its the first time I replyed to a forum and didn't know what was going on ...but any way I meant what i said.....

They don't take out threads until they are way old. Thanks for your reply. Yeah, I've met some real winners-lol. And the guy that stood me up was an airline pilot! I eventually met him and after that one meeting, never again. Oh well. Small loss.

Glad you finally posted something. keep it up.

I haven't been scammed yet, but thanks for the heads up. I have, however, been mislead. Most of the time is always about sex. I don't understand what is up with that. They have a million sites where you can go on to find other singles that are looking to just hook up for a night. Why pray on the ones who are looking for something more meaningful when your chances aren't that great of getting into her pants in the first five minutes you meet her? It just doesn't make any sense to me....

Many of us are honest - sorry you havent met us yet! hope 08 brings you a most excellent honest guy