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well, actually it depends the age. i think that if the woman is older, the oldest that she should be is top 4 years. and if the man is older i think that tops 10 years old is fine. since alot of couples that have age differences when the woman is way older , most of the times they do not last. because guys tend to fall in love visually while females are more mentally or emmotionally. most of the times they don't look at physical appereance if they were already in love before the guy gets really old.

I have been in a relationship with a much younger guy for 5 years. It has gone pretty well until recently. I am getting to the point where I am looking for security and he ain't it!

sweety age aint nothing but a number. just make sure the guy is 100 percent real on what he says. if the guy makes u happy n u make feel good go 4 it.coming from a guy life is 2 short 2 try 2 find the perfect person. no one is. give a shot. n u will know in your heart if he is the right one 4 u.

i think i might be one of the youngest people on here and i dont have a single profile view. i think age matters

Your only 6 years older than him. Usually when one is old enough to be my mommy, then age becomes an issue.

i really dont mind the age gap. if you love someone that is all that counts. unless they are around my parents age lol. i like to stay with in 6 years of my age.

PLAIN AND SIMPLE TO ME AGE IS JUST A NUMBER ONCE YOU ARE OLDER THEN 21..Storm W

I think it changes in each circumstance. I would date a younger girl but alot of them think you are creepy or some crap. I would also date an older one. Im 32 and have seen 20 year olds and 40 year olds that were interesting on here, how does that get spun as creepy? Just exploring different options and sometimes people are really intriguing, even if younger or older.

Hi Mandy! I think you tried with him and just felt it wasnt 'right' in some way, because you end your post with "i just want to be loved" So, apparently, there was some 'doubt' or something that made you decide to end it. Whether it WAS the age diff or not. I respect you for considering whats in your childrens 'best interests' too, coz there are 'weirdos' out there & you have to not only protect your heart, but your children as well. I've had a couple of younger guys try to be 'more than friends' on HERE & when my daughters were younger, and for ME, i just wasnt/arent 'comfortable' with someone close to my daughters' or even my son-in-laws age...and I consider how it would make them feel.. I know people are going to say (to me..not you) things like 'you cant help who you fall in love with' etc, etc, but i believe that, YES, you CAN ! If you 'dont go there' with someone much younger than you, other than being friends (IF you AND they can & want to be) you wont fall IN love with them...(i do believe there is a diff between loving & being IN love too :) So, i make my 'bounderies' clear & up front...So nobody gets hurt in the end..But, if on the other hand, you are having 'second thoughts' on 'breaking up' with him, maybe you should 'reconsider'...either way, i wish you all the best in your 'search'...<3 SuZi (ps: you seem very nice, smart & a good mother !! You'll 'find' him !! :)

:o You're 26! I'm 43 & have been with 20 year olds!!!
I get 18 & 19 years olds too! I loooooove young guys!!!
But age is just a number! Go by the person - who they are, how attracted you are to each other & how you mesh. That's all that counts! :)

Such wise advice from a beautiful and intelligent lady.

Thnx...i didnt know you were replying to me until you told me (Becauz you didnt 'quote' my comment in your reply!! lols !! ;) Well....as the saying goes 'With 'age' comes...oldness..nah..thats not how it goes....wait a minute....its coming to me.....lightbulb above head....got it...'With age Comes WISDOM'..or being 'set in yur ways' lol !! Depends on who & what AGE the person you're sharing that wisdom with is heheeee!!

Do what's best for the 3 boys.

(Hi Eaglo!! How have you been? Good Advice!! ;) Eaglo hit on a good thought ...We have to think bout our kids 1ST (Mine are 'grown' but i still factor them in on mostly every decision I Make ! :)

I don't like going with guys in my age group or younger

typically I date guys in mid 30s to mid 40s

I will talk to guys my age but that doesn't last long neither does the younger ones


just dont have a connection with them

I've always said; Age is only a number on paper. (And we all know what puppies do on paper!)
Whats most important is respect for each other. If there's no respect, Then things cannot progress.