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I went with a man for 7 yrs and he cheated on me. I forgave him as he promised he would never do it again. Well he did it many more times. He was a compulsive cheater. Then he just up and left me on New Years Eve and never looked back. I didnt even get a reason or even a break up. He just never showed up again. But he keeps contacting my kids...Once a cheater always a cheater. I am not bitter, I will just never trust a man who ever cheated on me again. No one gets a second chance at that. Remember whoever he sleeps with, you too are sleeping with if you sleep with him.
Hi,Warmbreeze! I was just seeing who rated my picture(sadistic on my part, my average keeps going down as more people vote, but I never was conceited!) and I saw you had rated me, a high rating and I thank you, but why I am replying to your post, I too recently found out my wife of 23 years was having an affair for the past 6 months. After the initial shock, I confronted her and asked how she could do this to me and my 18 year old son. She blamed me! She said I controlled her, I was home too much(on disability for 6 years due to severe arthritis after working for 28 years to support our family) and our marraige was "loveless". If controlling is telling her to stop drinking two boxes of wine a week and getting into at least two accidents, yes, I'm guilty. The only one not in love was her unless you consider being obsessed with her own looks as love. Nonetheless, I feel your pain concerning cheaters. If I was so bad, why did she still come back to my home, eating my food and using my utilities while having sex with someone she picked up on Myspace. Cheaters are selfish and lack the morals anyone being in a relationship should have. In time, the guy she is now with who thinks having sex with a married woman is okay WILL CHEAT ON HER. KHARMA! So, this New Years, I wish you a happy year and life to come. You deserve better and will find him! "Cornman" aka Joe.