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ur not doing anything wrong...just ahven't talked to the right girl...

Personally, think about it!.. What type girls/women are you wanting to chat with? Maybe your goals and/or standards aren't within your realm..

Are you picking girls that are too young, too cute, too into themselves? Do you read the profiles to see what they are looking for? I got caught up during one period, when I was mainly looking @ pictures.. I'd see someone that I thought was handsome and if he was in the military and in uniform, I especially was intrigued - but, I was going about it all wrong! Some that I chatted with, were funny, some got really personal, some became internet chat buddies - but, the ones that I chose to chat with - because I thought they were really cute - ended up being the rudest guys of them all..

My suggestion: Read profiles.. Study these people.. There are some on here that are really sincere. There are some on here that are truly looking for relationships. Some just like to chat, meet new friends - and that is how they like to spend their free time. Others are just playing games!..

Good luck to you! Keep trying! Who knows, you may find the love of your life - or - your best friend...

Personally, think about it!.. What type girls/women are you wanting to chat with? Maybe your goals and/or standards aren't within your realm..

Are you picking girls that are too young, too cute, too into themselves? Do you read the profiles to see what they are looking for? I got caught up during one period, when I was mainly looking @ pictures.. I'd see someone that I thought was handsome and if he was in the military and in uniform, I especially was intrigued - but, I was going about it all wrong! Some that I chatted with, were funny, some got really personal, some became internet chat buddies - but, the ones that I chose to chat with - because I thought they were really cute - ended up being the rudest guys of them all..

My suggestion: Read profiles.. Study these people.. There are some on here that are really sincere. There are some on here that are truly looking for relationships. Some just like to chat, meet new friends - and that is how they like to spend their free time. Others are just playing games!..

Good luck to you! Keep trying! Who knows, you may find the love of your life - or - your best friend...

Hmm. Not to sound rude. But maybe this is the issue? I mean seriously, your kinda worked up over not getting any replies? Do you send one liners, or maybe write a book to each of these ladies? Could it be possible your coming off as being overly needy, or desperate? My point isn't to hurt ya feelings bud. But instead help by suggestion.

Think about it, relax a little things always work out. Sometimes the more someone trys to aquire a anything. The more difficult that becomes. Sometimes its better to let that anything find you. ;)

I didn't take it as being rude, I think your right It did caome across as sounding unconfident and women want a self confident man thanks for the advise I think it will

No problem bud, your welcome :)

mikey makes a good point. i'm way too old for you so i feel i can speak freely. first you're a good lookin guy don't let that part be a concern. your profile is rather sparse, so it's hard to get much of a clue about you from that, perhaps you could share a little more jt information. also i have noticed that on CS you are best recognized and better noticed if you take the time to read blogs or take polls, then comment. often people i'd never meet otherwise find commmon ground in this forum. there are plenty of fish in the tippiecanoe you need to improve your lure.

good luck don't give up. lafayette is the festival capital of indiana, folks are always in a good and social mood for these things. get out and join the fun.


by the way 30 is the perfect age to get serious about women.

take care

da bliss