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Hi everyone,
Ok, describe your perfect first date. Remember, most of us have never met except for on line chatting or through these threads/blogs. So how would impress that special someone that you have agreed to meet. Would it be dinner, or a movie, or maybe just a walk somewhere?

Don't be afraid to dream and use your imagination, but be honest, what makes that perfect first date?

OK...since nobody else will stepped out and start this...I will!

It doesn't matter whether you play Miniature Golf (lol), go to a light dinner & movie, or just a walk in the light rainfall...It is all about the person you are with. I just got home from a tremendous date with a tremendous lady, Great conversation, laughing, enjoyable give and take, and the whole time, it was about just spending time with someone who appreciated a nice evening without expectations or false pretenses.

To you....Thank you...look forward to seeing you again soon!!

Congrats on your date. I hope it all works out for you. I do have to wonder though....were your conversations, before going out, all based on sex like you tried to make ours? Hopefully she likes to make that the main conversation too. Good luck!

OUCH! You might want to call the girl before she reads Chele's post! Get that next date on the books before she has second thoughts!


And to think, the poor girl didn't even get a good night kiss you bad boy!

Planning the 2nd? Then you'd know the 1st one was good

I'll be especially interested to read the recap of date number two especially since date one was so tremendous!

LOL....Patience folks....I'll give you all an update when I have date #2.

Anybody have any suggestions on where I should take this lovely lady?

Second date suggestions:

Bowling - it's a classic

A sporting event - I have tickets to the Monon Bell game on November 10. Anyone want to go? The event is one of the oldest college football rivarlies in the nation. DePauw University vs. Wabash College.

The Zoo - feed peanuts to the elephants and each other!

Take a drive - the leaves are changing color. Brown County is beautiful this time of year.

Go to the art museum and see if the two of you can recreate one of the masterpieces. (for example, "The Kiss" by Rodin)

The planetarium - spend some time under the stars together

Good luck with your lady!

Pick me, pick me!!!




Great suggestions...let's see...that's the next seven dates if I counted right..sounds good to me! Now i guess I get around to asking her...LOL

Although I may have to pass on the "Mono Bell Classic"...work,,,yuk, but 6 out 7 isn't bad....

You know, you would make a great Events coordinator!!!

One Liner's Comedy Club?


Even on a chilly night, the Canal can be good.


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Nice my friend! What girl wouldn't love an evening full of laughter followed an adventure on the high seas?

If it stays this chilly, one might need ice skates on the canal

I'd be happy to slide across the ice with the right guy. Don't forget, I lived in the wilderness of Alaska for nearly a decade. Rain, snow, sleet, blustery winds, long days and longer nights are the norms.

Silly boys! The cold only gives a girl an excuse to cuddle.

...now that's a thought....

A nice warm fire, nice glass of wine, soft easy music, a beautiful lady cuddling up close to you.....

Now that's a thought that warms the soul and melts the heart...

ok....I know I promised an update after "Date #2"...but a gentleman never kisses and tells..LOL

Let's just say that we passed our Chemistry 101 test....Hee Hee

You are an amazing lady ...see you soon!!!

Since the updates appear to over (because you are a gentleman after all), when might we see another amusing thread in the very sad Indiana forum?

You were clever enough to pass Chemistry, but can you keep the conversation going?

Ok "smalltowngirl64" here is one just for you!

Look at "OK...so you have met that "Special Someone"

Stay sweet

Oh my.. I haven't been on a date in years. I'm not your usual movie/dinner kind of girl, nor am I about to hit the bar for drinks (as I don't drink). I think in order for me to come up with something truly extraordinary and worth exploring; I'd have to cross paths with someone who lights my fire and captivates me enough, to meet them. Then of course, having a remarkable first date would become a priority of mine; whatever that may consist of