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Sounds to me like all he did was take... I believe you saved yourself a lot of pain, and not to mention money.. Yes you did the right thing...

Yes you did right, you deserve better then to be used like a door mat. I think a relationship should be a partnership where both put their best foot forward to make it work.

You did nothing wrong. You need a relationship with give and take. We must all be equal in a relationship and able to share money, decisions, time... everything. If he could offer you nothing, then he was never worth your time to begin with. I hope you can find someone who can show you the complete opposite.

i think you made the right decision a guy should never use a girl...this guy was taking you for a ride hun ..he would of eventually drained you of everything...i hope you didnt give him any loans or pay any of his bills...you need to go out with a guy that respects you for you..i hope i helped you sweety...Lenny

I dont see why you feel rejected,you should feel like you got rid of an ass,which is a GOOD thing.

Seems a little odd, you asking. You chose to break up with him. Therefore, you were unhappy. So ending an unhappy relationship is often the right thing. If you're asking people to valadate your decision then, are you in doubt about it?

Don't second guess your decisions - you know the relationship better than anyone on this site. Youdecide if you did the right thing.

If you're having 2nd thoughts I'll ask you a couple of things that don't need your answer except to yourself.
1, Are there things you did against the relationship that you haven't told him? Often this is the main reason people end relationships - so they can stop hurting the other party. If so write down when, where and what you did until youcan't think of any more.

2, Money isn't the only form of contribution to a relationship. Often a man is the biggest contributer in a relationship or mararige yet the woman's contribution is seen as important(or vice versa)as it should. Did he give to you in other ways tha twerent in the form of money? If so was this valuable to you and are you now missing it?

3, Who told you he was no good? Whoever it was do you think they realy had your best interests at heart?

Whatever you decide - good luck.

donna its a terrific decision you made...your b/f could of given you gas money if he coudnt drive..he wasnt interested in you hun...if you were with this guy more then 6 months he did take you for a major ride...you should be happy to get the hell away from him...he will use every woman he can donna dont feel bad you ditched him..i think later down the road he would of broke up with you...he will always be looking to sponge off of women..he needs to grow up fast and change his ways...GOD in his life would not be a bad place to start....i hope i made you feel better...

yes you did