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Hi,

I don't think you need gaining weight.

Thanks for your reply

Maybe I just need a more positive attitude and a little less of a snowstorm here today.

i agree u dont need to lose weight,not saying this to be mean but maybe a makeover is what u need.

sorry i ment u dont need to gain weight just right

A MAKEOVER??? Damn how rude. What magical concealing mirror are you looking into?

No, If you are comfortable in your skin than don’t worry about it. Just enjoy life & you’re never too old.

Why gain weight, Most women are fighting to keep it off.

You look extremly fine and fit.

Snow shovelling does help with that.

You are definitely FINE, be comfortable with your beauty!!!!! If I was near you I would be knocking on your door with flowers. Good luck. Ken

I will tell you this. I am not even going to vote on the poll because all the answers you have given are irrelevant. So I will make up a new answer for your poll. I think you look fine just the way you are. You should never change yourself to please others. You should only change for yourself and change for the better. Not for someone else. If you are happy with the way you look then why bother asking what other people think. There is always someone out there for everybody no matter how a person looks. If you feel unhappy with yourself ask yourself why? Is it because you are too caught up on what others think? Or do You feel you need to change? The majority of the reason why people dont like the way they look is becuase most people feel they have to appease others; fit in the crowd so to speak. So please. Do not think that you have to gain weight and for those...loose weight just to please other men (and for men, please women). Because only you can be happy with yourself.

I think your right. A positive attitude would be the best thing. like I said before there is always someone out there for everybody. I do not think you need to gain weight.

I don't think so Arabella, when I viewed your profile you looked just fine as you are.

I just signed up on this site and was going to send a message to you and all of a sudden you're not there anymore. Where did yo go? Your profile seemed so interesting. I'd like to get to know you especially since we live so close together.

Please check my profile and see if you might have any interest. I'll treat you very nice, promise...

Lets get together, All the best, Bill...

I know....POOF and I was gone

I posted this thread as a joke.....

....after I noticed that most of the women in my vicinity are FULL FIGURED and seem to have boyfriends or husbands.

I'm happy with the way I look.

And I've become accustomed to being alone.

BBWs are NOT the new trend. The simple fact is that online is the only place that they can get any attention.

Gaining weight is NEVER a good idea

Now granted, I've never met you. But judging from the pictures I've seen so far........

Darlin. You look just fine.

Thanks, Joe

No, man like bones. So, less you weight more popular among man you are, just look at photo ratings.
I7

Being a big girl myself, I would not suggest being a big girl!
I've tried losing the weight. It just doesnt come off. Thin women have everything handed to them. And Yes, Online big girls get a little more attention, because its not reality. A guy can say he appreciates a big girl online, however in reality would never show it. The internet is a mask.

Stay the way you are. You'll find someone.