thesagacontinues: Well, for you, it's probably because you are too picky. You aren't going to find the perfect person. And perhaps most of the women on dating sites don't meet all of the criteria stated in your profile.
Saga,
I was going to let this go, but I'll be damned if I'm going to take any crap from anyone, especially a younger woman.
First of all, flea-bag, I hate younger women, so you don't even matter. What you think means NOTHING. Secondly, there is a name for people that aren't "too picky". It's called being DESPERATE. Checkmate.
Troy,
As for your "hits from all over the world", that's great, congratulations. No offense, but how many of them have you met in-person? None, I bet.
Your suggestion about posting in the forums and putting yourself out there is a good theory, but trust me, it doesn't work. I've tried this many times before on the other sites I've been on. Yes, you'll get responses(good and bad), but it never leads to anything more than wasted time. You can find a few nice women this way, but they are always too far away. It gets old hearing "wish you lived closer". When I used to post in the forums, I got responses from all over the U.S., Canada, U.K., Australia, etc.(not one of them was anywhere near here). That long-distance crap doesn't work unless you have your own private plane to travel back-and-forth across the country/around the world to see them.
That's why I stopped using the forums. The only reason I'm posting in the forums right now is because when I logged-in, I saw what that that little girl(Saga) had said and realized that she needed to be put in her place.