I'm sure that all or at least most of the women on here who say they're interested in a long term thing know that a LTR doesn't come overnight...
It sounds like you may be having trouble breaking the ice and if that's the case, my advice is to stop looking for, hoping for or trying to make anything happen between you and anyone else...
Women can sense when a man is desperate - to a greater extent than you realize, so you might need to genuinely stop trying to please or even impress everyone you meet and just let happen whatever happens...!
Hope that helps,
Michael
mdconcreter: why are all the females here for a long term relationships?dosent everything start with the first step?