loneliness, that shit bites for real

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JDrfh hollywood, Maryland USA
Does anyone else out there get the feeling that by being a nice pleasant person to others, that your wasting energy. Me personally, i know i am at the end of my rope. I was raised on values of manners and respect for your fellow man, and woman. And its the classic story of nice guy finishes last as per usual. It is enough to almost make me stop trying. As you can see im here, trying my first singles website. All i can say is to my true, few brothers who keep the nice guy fire alive. stay strong guys, we will get what we deserve at some point.


Joshcheers
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
JDrfh: Does anyone else out there get the feeling that by being a nice pleasant person to others, that your wasting energy. Me personally, i know i am at the end of my rope. I was raised on values of manners and respect for your fellow man, and woman. And its the classic story of nice guy finishes last as per usual. It is enough to almost make me stop trying. As you can see im here, trying my first singles website. All i can say is to my true, few brothers who keep the nice guy fire alive. stay strong guys, we will get what we deserve at some point.Josh
So will you.
thesagacontinues Boonsboro, Maryland USA
Yeah, just take a look at the being overlooked thread. I'm not going to be nice anymore. =)



waterfun chester, Maryland USA
I dont blame you..... can't we all just get along...peace
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
waterfun: I dont blame you..... can't we all just get along...
Come on fellow Marylanders, it will be okay. This web stuff is hard, but it gets easier.
thesagacontinues Boonsboro, Maryland USA
Your dogs are cute!!!!! I can't have a dog in my apartment, so I got a cat instead.



waterfun chester, Maryland USA
thanks ... there my kids. they argue just as much..



waterfun chester, Maryland USA
pubwrite08: Come on fellow Marylanders, it will be okay. This web stuff is hard, but it gets easier.




thats right... frustrated lol
JDrfh hollywood, Maryland USA
thanks, i really appreciate thathug



waterfun chester, Maryland USA
No prob.. I'm with ya brother beer
Kuroshogun Chester, Maryland USA
Being nice does have a tendency to leave you unnoticed. You must also realize that when somebody does notice you, they will be hooked :)
bamma882 baltimore, Maryland USA
JDrfh: Does anyone else out there get the feeling that by being a nice pleasant person to others, that your wasting energy. Me personally, i know i am at the end of my rope. I was raised on values of manners and respect for your fellow man, and woman. And its the classic story of nice guy finishes last as per usual. It is enough to almost make me stop trying. As you can see im here, trying my first singles website. All i can say is to my true, few brothers who keep the nice guy fire alive. stay strong guys, we will get what we deserve at some point.Josh



I feel the same way, I treat women with respect and they leave. The worst thing is when you hear "You're too nice". One day we nice guys will find someone that loves being treated that way.
solidxate Pasadena, Maryland USA
I second this topic. True stuff.
thaPresident Lexington Park, Maryland USA
pubwrite08: So will you.


being nice sucks!!! but i dont know how to be anything else...
GR8GUY42008 Bethesda, Maryland USA
I also agree..dont understand what women are looking for these days..You treat them w/ respect, say nice things, show them a good time and they still like or go back to the guys who treat them like crap They dont know when they have a good thing .roll eyes
mdcwby2009 hampstead, Maryland USA
Hi, am new to the site today and saw your posting, read it and enjoyed it very much. I fell the same way as you do, always the nice guy finishing last. I have been looking for the right woman to match up with since 2004, and I'm at my wits end here there has to be some one out there for me. Loneleeness is no fun, I can relate to that,I'm tired of trying the bars and clubs and coming up empty handed, so I turned to the dating sites, and I would up with a bunch of scammers, so I tried the free sites, and still had no luck, so I found this one and am hoping that I will get luck on here, but I will never give up, no sir I don't go down that easy. I wish you and the other fellow brothers out there the best of luck.

Bill
pubwrite08 District Heights, Maryland USA
I know this is not going to sound encouraging...But a lot of people here have met folks and gotten married. It just takes a minute that is all. Have I nope. But I do not give up hope. Yes I have run into tons of scammers seems like every other other message or e-mail was from a bullshitter, but I came here to meet thet one person.

The one that makes me feel better than I already do. The one that can add to the love that I already have for myself. So I just stick it out. JMHO
johnjrh upper marlboro , Maryland USA
Nice guys are last.
johnjrh upper marlboro , Maryland USA
Ok got it now not from top down lodoh
jj021677 laurel, Maryland USA
I get tired of all the profiles with girls saying they are sweet,careing and down to earth looking for a real man who will treat them with respect and not play games then when you e-mail them you get no reply. obviously they are lying and are looking for rich model types. I find this happens a lot on plentyoffish.com. Most of the time you don't even get a sorry not interested. Very dissapointing but I am not giving up.




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