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The only reason that I haven't uploaded a photo is because I don't have one. I try my best to stay on the other side of the camera.

WTF?? where is your photo??

i really dont know how. i use the computer at the public library. its a effort on my end just to send a email and get it correct.im a bit old fassion but im not that far gone that i dont know a little about computers.

I have a few reasons why I don't post my picture. First, I am currently separated. I don't like people to know about my personal life, and just feel that the world is too small. I don't want people to see me here and then spread gossip. Secondly, I don't want to feel like a piece of meat. I do actually think I'm attractive but don't want guys to contact me just because of that. It means alot to me for a man to show interest in my words, and then later on see what my face and body looks like. I want to be appreciated for ME first.

Thats a good answer.

I can see everyones point,you want to be noticed for you not the looks, but in reality there is always some sort of physical attraction, wether it be some like heavy girls or the other way around. To me a basic (full body) pic of a woman is nicer than putting on an act. A full body pic also shows detail if someone is neat and takes care of themselves.
Dont be shy, if I can do it, so can you!

ppl do probably have there reasons but at the same time its dam annoying, i will only chat to ppl if they do have a photo or there willing to send me one.
but its hard to get to know a faceless and voiceless person on the site.

Honestly, I think you should be careful about that. I have met two men who I enjoyed quite a bit who hadn't put thier pictures up. I would just not rule it out....You could end up meeting someone great!

Honestly, I put up a photo because I'm not shy, not ashamed in how I look, and not embarrassed about being on a dating site. I see people's points but I do have to say - it's nice to put a face to the words.