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I'm a 20yr old bbw. I have trouble finding the right guy. I wanna know how 2 get a guy's attention when ur a bbw like me. If u can help me out, I'd appreciate it. I don't need advice of weight loss, just wanna know how 2 get a guys attention when ur a bbw. Thank you much.

I'm also a BBW and I've always been pretty lucky with guys. I think the answer is to forget about what size your hips are, and think about the size of your heart & your brain. Be yourself, talk to guys to get to know them, not just as a boyfriend but as another interesting human being. If a man is so shallow that they won't give you the time of day because you're not a size 6, they're not worth your time.

That is so true. Thanx 4 ur advice. I try 2 tell guys that I'm a nice person, even tho I'm a bbw, then it seems like it scares them away. But thanx 4 ur advice sammy.

it's quite simple really

just "up play" your good parts,

and down play the not so good ones....

make yourself shine, and quit explaining or apologizing

you are who you are, and that should be enough for anyone.

Be happy, and others will be happy being around you!

I don't care how big you areas longyou love me for who I am. I am a verrry nice person and am totally blind. I am great to joke around with. well you can email me if you want. hugs, Ron

Ok call me naive here but the hell's a BBW? Big Breasted Women? Beautifully Bold Women? I'm at a total lost here. ... mmm yeah I'm coming up with nothin here. UHHH Big Boned Women? Eh just send me a mail message with the title BBW .... that way if I see the abbreviation again I won't be the same idiot twice :D

hey you know it is no particular way to get any guy and there is no manual im a skinny rail but i have dated all over the spectrum so the catch to it to me is have your own personality and be yourself there is someone who would love u for the person u r. Remember the greatest guy is not the greatest lover it is the greatest companion that makes the best lover