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i do not understand guys. why do they lie and say they like or love you then leave you?
Sounds to me like there "Little Head" down below is what there thinking with and lieing to get in your pants, by telling you what to want to hear!
These guys are not Gentel-men but they are brain dead Ass-Holes! They have one thing on there mind and they are willing to tell you anything to spend one night in the sack.
There are very few of us true Gentel-men out there but we easy to find if you look hard enough!
Chef Forbes