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i want to know why guys are afarid to be with big girls?

they aren't...what turns them off is the old adage "oh, whoa is me, I'm big, no one wants me, they all want skinny women"...
If you are confident within yourself, then there should be no problem.
Getting over the self defeating process is a good thing to do.

I love myself, and it shows. Never have a prob with attraction to guys and vice versa

see i love myself the way i am . i just hate when guys say you are fat and stupied and ugly.

why would you be interested in guys like that?

i am not interested in them. i just hate when they think they are better then us.

well, I look at them like they have low self esteem, and have to cut someone else down in order to feel better about themselves. I pity them...

that is very true. they think if they hurt your feeling it bothers us. but it does not bother me.

I found out early on in life that the ones you wouldn't think would be interested in you, are the ones who are, and the yucky ones are just that, yucky

That is very true. I have date a lot of hot guys.Tha i thought would not date me. and we date for almost a year.

its to bad that guys are afraid of big girls... big girls have more fun...

Yes we do. But it is there lost not ours.

My first sex was with a big woman and there always been a place in my heart for them.

It is my opinion that all woman are beautiful pieces of art blessed by god. true beauty is not what you look like, how much you weigh, or anything like that. true beauty really depends on a females level of integrity. I think if women would stop seeing themselves as fat or thin or whatever and start to accept themselves as beautiful beings no matter the case you would feel better about yourself entirely. Men that focus on physical beauty are self-conscious, self absorbed, narrow-thinking, close-mined, shallow, and petty a$$holes that don't respect themselves just as much as they don't really respect women. if you meet a man that is looking at the outside and not the inside then they are really just a waste of your time, I mean seriously why would you want to even look in the direction of a man that judges you on physicalities. pointless if you ask me. but then thats my opinion, doesnt mean much after all.

yes your opinion does count. i think you are right. well thank you.

your welcome and not a problem....

Whole Lotta Rosie/by AC/DC


Wanna tell you a story
'Bout a woman I know
When it comes to lovin'
Oh she steals the show
She ain't exactly pretty
Ain't exactly small
Forty-two, thirty-nine, fifty-six
You could say she's got it all

Never had a woman
Never had a woman like you
Doing all the things
Doing all the things you do
Ain't no fairy story
Ain't no skin and bone
But you give it all you got
Weighing in at nineteen stone

CHORUS:
You're a whole lotta woman
A whole lotta woman
Whole lotta Rosie
And you're a whole lotta woman

Oh honey you can do it
Do it to me all night long
Only one to turn
Only one to turn me on
All through the night time
And right around the clock
To my surprise
Rosie never stops

CHORUS:
You're a whole lotta woman
A whole lotta woman
Whole lotta Rosie
And you're a whole lotta woman

While I agree that some men have preferences for smaller, petite women, that is their privilege, and, as stated, their loss as well.

There is nothing wrong with a "big" girl as stated above. However, we must make an important distinction between a "big" girl, a girl with a "few extra pounds", a "full-figured" girl, etc., and one who is morbidly obese. While clearly, this has nothing to do with the personality of the girl, or any other qualities she may have, a girl being morbidly obese may be a drawback for physical intimacy for some men.

Yea but you are not that big so it is easier so don't say it's not

I think its a personal preference, I have seen some very attractive bigger girls, but in all honesty the fit girl is going to catch your eye first everytime , unless you have some sort of big girl fetish...which Im guessing some fellas do... bottom line: Big girls need love too....just not from me !