prncss4someone: why would you do anything that your x told you to do? and why don't you live next door to me?
Well, can't speak for him, but with my ex it was much easier to do what I was told to do, though I had the common sense to avoid the worst of it. (No snow jogging for me). I have found women can be very intimidating at times... And I really don't live next door to anyone... any more.