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I wouldn't think so as long as it's to do info seeking, to take into consideration what happened, and not to try to change yourself to be someone you're not.
Thank you for the response, next question. Would you ever, and I mean ever break up with someone via e-mail. I have heard from many and agree that that is just downright cruel. regardless of the situation. especially to leave the person hanging like I described afterword.