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Mick....I'm sorry to hear about how your meeting went, it's stressfull enough meeting someone for the first time, let alone have them come stay with you for a week. I think it's horrible that she didn't want to go and do any of the things you had planned, not even taking into consideration that you took a lot of time and care planning these events.

The only comment I have on the baggage that she brought along with her, well, by the time most people are adults they have "baggage" of some sort or another, if they don't then they have lived a very sheltered life. What matters is how people grow from these life experiences, if they chose to live in the past then they do not have the ability to grow and maintain healthy relationships with themselves or others.

In my opinion, it sounds like you are much better off without her, she stole from you, even if it was one dollar, that's stealing, let alone stealing a prescribed medication.

I wish you the best in your search for romance in the future.

Thank you for your comments and wisdom.I am not a walking wounded
or anything along those lines..I was just a little saddened and more dissapointed.Your wisdom and insight is very welcome though.

I tried and it did'nt work out..guess that's life and there are no promises for us.Oh well..stay busy and chin up,is what I say!!!!!!

Happy Holidays to All!!!!

Hey Mick, Yeah, there are a lot of loonies out there and you just happened upon one. Sorry about that, but please don't give up hope. You are a great guy, intelligent, funny and able to bounce back from just about anything. You deserve much better than that crazed woman who arrived on your doorstep. Learn from the experience, lock up the meds before the next meeting and I really wish you all the best in finding a normal woman next time around.

Mick, Annie, and all:
Hey nice to see you all are alive and well.
Miss chatting with all of you.
Mick, all I can say is it sounds like so far you've received the comfort needed. It's nice to hear there is more than one guy on this planet (me) that is willing and able to pour his guts out on a bad experience to make letting it go easier. Sorry that it had to be such a sad experience for you. Hopefully better "packages" will arrive for you this holiday season.
Hey it's tradition, Santa is nice to those whom have been nice and leaves coal for those naughty.
Happy Holidays folks,
P.S. I would still like to plan for some sort of a Connecting Singles Picnic somewhere this summer. or maybe even a night of bowling and pool this winter. but, I am amazed at how many "shy" people live in MN. C'mon guys we are the land of MN nice.

Thanks for all the support guys...I've gotten over it now and will learn from it hopefully.Only thing is...we all have to take some sort of a chance somewhere.I'll take the good advice of my comrads I have here and move on.Thanks All!!
Mick

Oh yeah....I forgot to mention this.When I went to work and left this woman at my place.I locked up my handguns,like always....she says:
I guess you don't trust me,do you? I think I'm glad I did now!!!!!!!!!

Over And Out...Mick

That is terrible, mick! I can't believe she stole your ambien. I keep mine locked up. I hope for her sake that she doesn't be an idiot and take more than she should, which is about 10mg. This stuff could easily kill you if you took more than you need. *sigh* It sounds like you had quite a bad time. I wish you the best of luck on your next date!

Guess I am kind of hijacking here.....

Curly it sounds like a great idea, the get together. Shy or not, count me in....depending on when and where of course. LOL You know how unpredictible this MN weather can be in the winter.

P.S. If I give ya the name of someone would ya tell them about MN nice? LOL I have finally been told that I am too nice by someone! UGH.

I'd go for the get together...sounds fun!!

And to answer the question on the Ambiem...yes they are 10mg.It said so on the bottle..which I'm sure she got rid of fast.Maybe she's taking a good nap right now..HA!

I've been on ambien for so many years now that it hardly effects me anymore, but I know that when you first start taking it the effects are much much more powerful than normal. So if you go from never taking it to 30 or 40mg, you really could die! Your heart would stop. Then again, in this woman's case it may have already stopped, and she was a zombie or something... yeah... lol

Mick, smart man, locking up the guns when this "lady" was in your place. Sounds like a professional "dater" from the Internet of which there are many I am told. Cover your butt, but don't let this experience keep you from expanding your horizons and keep on searching. Next time put her up in a motel for a few nights instead. Cheap insurance.

Good idea Annie...guess I never thought of that because I was so sure we'd be a great match and hit it off.What a horror story though..to be shot with one of your own guns.My dad was a policeman and I've been around guns for a long time.I have a carry permit but do not always carry.I am very careful but yes..it could have happened.Good thing for me she was'nt crazy enough to try and break into my little strong box.
I need to think about a more secure safe I think now.Some of the new gun safes are real nice...and spendy too!Ha!