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Check it out Jim.... she is just full of excuses isn't she like it is really work to raise 4 kids by yourself J/K



Hey man as far as getting together goes..... whatever works out best for the majority is cool with me... if we got to postpone it a week or two to get everyone there it is no sweat off my back... I'm just cool like that allright enough horsing around for me

Haha Dog you are so funny! lol I now know why I missed ya so much! Yeppers...that is me, full of excuses...I hate to party so I would much rather pick my nose! NOT!!!! I wanna party damnit!! Hell...I NEED to party!!! Well...like I said, only Mon. would work for me, but the following weeks should be less hectic!! Hope you are all having a great weekend! I am bored out of my mind! Blah! TTYL
~K~

If you all get together let me know, im only available sundays :) working too much these days. I think it could be fun to see everyone in person.
Stef

OK folks almost everyone seems to have disappeared again. Here is the scoop on the poop. like I said in the original post. this is the first NORMAL work week I have had IN AGES, I don't know what is going to happen after this week. that's why I was thinking this coming weekend. IF it doesn't work out the next closest time I see available would be probably the weekend following the 4th of july or in the middle of the week sometime. (normally but, the way this place is jerking me around who knows).

Anyway I just thought I would throw that out there. ~K~, Jesse, Stef, anyone, lets try and plan something out. you guys e-mail me and if nothing else we can get together for a fun time at the beach/park. ...~K~ I believe you said you were worried about babysitters, bring the kids along if ya want, I love kids so I wouldn't mind. It's not like this get together is an "official date" or anything.

Jim.

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....... all I wanna do is have some fun and meet my new friends.................grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Well...like I said...just keep me informed. Yeah, I have no clue where everyone disapeared to again!! WTF?!?! Hahaha! You are toooo funny!! Bringing my kids....lmao Really?!?!? I don't know if any of you are really READY for my kids!! lol Hell....if I brought them you all would certainly prob. not wanna date me! haha! Oh well...on the other hand if you don't like them or couldn't handle them I couldn't date you anyway, ya know?? Well...I am up for anything. Just let me know the place and time...depending on the day I might have to drag them along, hopefully if it isn't this week I will come alone though! TTYL
~K~

Okay people....WHERE ARE YOU!?!?!?!?!?! I know it is Sat. but for Pete's sake I was the last one who posted here and that was like a million years ago!!! Where did y'all go??? Look...now ya are gonna make me cry!! Okay...I guess I'll just go back to my regularly scheduled program....NOTHING!! lol TTYL
~K~

obviously WE scared everyone away ~K~. I've been flirting with a person I am trying to meet and am getting slammed into brick walls every time we try and set up a meet n greet. I dunno, I am about to just say F it and let mother nature/god/whoever decide if I am supposed to have a relationship in my life. Cause everyone out there is too damn chicken to meet (present company excluded) or to damn stuck on issues that are not permanent issues.

GRRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrrr

Jim

Hey man.... it'll happen... stop doing this --> and do a little this and all will flow.... or something what do I know I am still single

Hey Dog.....YA Know I was checking my archives after I read this and it seems like it was just a little under a year ago you gave me the same advice...........................MAN what r we doing wrong (or maybe right) to still be single after a year. ME I can blame it mainly on my work schedule conflicting with my life YOU...............You have a motorcycle, live in the middle of nowhere, look like you have a ton of cool friends, a mustang, ya da ya da ya da...................................................

not TRYING TO BE NEGATIVE I'M JUST SUPER PISSED OFF THAT NOT ONE DAMN PLAN I HAD FOR MY FREE WEEKEND WORKED............ALL OF THEM WERE FLUSHED DOWN THE TOILET.........you disappeared, whitetiger vanished, one of the girls I was talking to told me she wouldn't date me because of "dependency issues" the other is impossible to get a hold of, and the newest, well she's a work in progress. and ~K~ and I only chatted via forums like 2 times. Oh, Stef wanted to get together and meet every one but I figured why bother when no one was gonna be there.............................summertime and my life grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

but hey, I'm alive and kickin and thats all that counts right.

Well man I guess my advice just sucks ass then huh? Sorry.. as far as me being single I think it has somethong <--- (I was gonna just correct this to something but it made me laugh too much) to do with me being to darn picky or something I don't know.

Yeah living in the middle of nowhere is a great way to pick up women I think about once every month or two there is a female that joins this site who is less than an hour drive away. Then there is the good old weeding out by age and what they are looking for yada yada yada... I just don't let it get to me anymore there are too many other great people around the forums that keep me coming back otherwise I would have been gone from here months ago

Shit Man, Jesse I sometimes think (no offense ladies) that you and I are the glue holding eachother together over time. something tells me that IF I do find that special someone out there you are gonna end up being my best man. (do you think your up to the challenge)

you guys are the best

Jim
p.s. I am sorry for coming off sounding pathetically dorky the last few postings but, I was really looking forward to getting out of this damn house this weekend. instead I ended up doing a ton of "mommy do" list crap and fix-ups inside..............BORING...............NOW I get to go back to my normally scheduled crappy schedule. I REALLY GOTTA GET OUT OF THIS JOINT

Haha Dog and Curly you guys are too cute! Here is my two cents....just plan on meeting people expecting absolutely nothing! No expectations=no dissapointments! I just talk to people online and if we meet it is cool like friends and if more happens so be it, but I can't control anything anymore and have decided not to try too hard! lol BTW....Dog this is for you...let's see...I may be further than you like, but I am cute, not too old/young, and I am SUPER funny!! haha Maybe you are just too damn picky! lol J/K You are probably just scared by the fact that I have so many kids! Oh well....like I said, I wanna hang out and meet new people and whatever may be later in life is cool w/me. I just wanna have a good time! Whoohoo!
Curly...keep your head up!!
If a woman can't accept who you are no matter where your life is at the moment then you deserve better! Don't let others make you so sad. If it is any concelation I had a crappy weekend too! I wanna get out and party!! Don't know when that will ever happen...have my kids on Fri. and then I have a damn wedding to go to on Sat. Blah!! Dumb married happy people! Oh well. TTYL
~K~

Here's my problem, I have been at this game so long and met so many nice people. but, when I meet them in person.....is another story. I met someone from another site this weekend and when we met he looked nothing like his picture! Why is it that this keeps happening? I am too trusting i guess. Are we all too afraid to be honest about how we look that we would rather just see what happens when we meet in person. Im so confused that I am willing to give up! Dont lie about your looks or post a pic that is not even you, its deceitful and shows signs of insecurity. I am tired of it guys, what do i do?

Thanks for letting me vent
Stef

Stef...I TOTALLY agree!!! I met a guy last summer that had pics posted of himself that I SWEAR were taken like 100 years ago!! In the pics he looked like a really hot version of the red-headed guy from CSI...but when I met him he looked more like he had no resemblence but the redish hair...and he looked like he had been rode hard and put away friggin' wet!! ARGH!! He claimed that those pics were only like a few years old...NOT!!! Holy Crap!! I almost died!! Not that you need to look exactly like the pic....but COME ON!!! I was so attracted to the pic and when we met it was crazy cause I was NOT attracted to him at all! Now whenever I meet people I try to NOT think they look anything like their pic....it is pretty sad, but unfortunately true. Okay...sorry about my rant...but I had to let Stef know she isn't the only one who has had to deal w/dumb men who present themselves as something they are NOT! Granted...I won't post a pic of my entire body cause I have self-esteem problems, but you can see exactly what my face and hair look like RIGHT NOW and I will describe to you in great detail how my body looks if need be before we meet...I am certainly not gonna lie about it...I don't need people thinking I am a beauty queen and then thinking I am a beached whale when we meet! haha! Well...hope you all are having a happy Monday...any fun plans for the 4th or the weekend??
~K~

HEY folks! Well another weekend lost but hardly forgotten! I want to thank all of you for your support and advice both in line and via personal e-mail. BTW ~K~ I'm cryin' just cause I'm attempting to meet someone closer doesn't mean its working. I still would probably fight jesse for a date with you. You seem to have a pretty clear head on your shoulders and more importantly YOU HAVE A POOL DAMMIT! MAN would that have felt good today.
anyway THANK YOU ALL you truly are a bunch of good eggs, slightly cracked but good
Why is it all the good women to date seem to live half a state away........Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

jim

To the two venters above it's not just guys and I agree It's pretty goofy. I can tell you my pic is less than a month old and You can tell by the righteous swim trunks I am Oh so worried about my image you all have fun but not too much fun

No problem...what are friends for, crazy advice!! lol Yeah, I know....most men I find are either far away, taken, missing/rotten teeth, or f'n brain damaged! Haha! Yeah, I am good for something....my Pool!! We are quite the bunch...only slightly damaged! BTW....what was that phone call about tonight?!?! I was so confused and tried to call you back and no answer...then your text about it being a strange last couple of days?!?! WTF?!?! Oh well....made me laugh. Hope you had a good night.

Yes....I do agree that women probably do the same thing Dog....but yet again, I haven't picked up many chicks on the internet lately so you would have to let me know! I usually pick up my chicks when I am out on the town...don't trust the internet for my type of women! I wanna "hand select" them! hahaha! Okay...now you guys are probably really scared! Either that or wondering if I am being serious! hahaha! You figure that one out yourselves!

Okay...I better get going. Hopefully you are all having a good start to the week. TTYL
~K~

~K~ asked.....
BTW....what was that phone call about tonight?!?! I was so confused and tried to call you back and no answer...then your text about it being a strange last couple of days?!?! WTF?!?! Oh well....made me laugh. Hope you had a good night.

Thanks alot ~K~ for posting that so now I have to answer in the open forums. OK here goes. AS you all know by now my weekend wasn't what I expected. would have been better if I didn't have a family member think I was trying to take pictures of her chest at a family gathering on Saturday, anyway......Last night I was going thru my phone book at work (as you probably know by now ~K~ I work in a very LOUD place if the call connected I believe it did. Anyway, I was going to delete a few people who haven't contacted me in awhile etc. and my boss came up to me right when I was getting ready to go past ~K~'s phone number and to Kitty's (yeah I know) anyhow, instead of hitting the info button to make sure I was deleting the right ~K~ yep girl I have about 3 of ya in my phone book currently. I accidently hit the send button. thus wise calling you. when I noticed the time and knew that I wouldn't be able to hear a word you were saying I tried texting ya and you kept trying to call and finally I got the text typed out and sent. (what can I say I got fat fingers and It takes me awhile to text crap).

So, just another WONDERFUL way I started my week. BTW I Too was laughing all nite over it so...............Thanks I hope I didn't disturb your sleep too much........

Jim

Haha! Sorry Jim...was just curious and had to ask! Hope you weren't trying to delete me and accidently called instead! lol Sure...that was really it wasn't it?!?! J/K Well....I hope all is well w/everyone! My day/week has sucked ass!! Oh well...tis my life I guess! TTYL
~K~

Minnesota is not dead! And here's a newbie to prove it!

Hey guys.