curly1969: Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....................... Let's just say I may need that link you were going to send me a while back. It seems to have worked wonders for you.
I dunno, I seem to be in the best part of my new friendship. "the fight or flight" crap if ya get my drift.................
like I said I dunno. but, I'm not going to worry about it either.
Yup, you either go for the gold or run for the hills. Sounds like you're at the "make or break" point.
Just be sure that you or her are not "in love with the idea of being in love".
In love, and the IDEA of being in love, are two totally different things. It's the latter that ends up in pain down the road. I call this the "googoo eyes" period, K calls it the "Stupid Happy People" syndrome.
Unfortunately this time will come to an end. Maybe you're right there now and that's what you meant by the Flight or Fight response. I don't know, only you do.
But I wish you all the best.