curly1969: ~K~ On/off topic; totally understand what a "bad weekend" is all about. Try this one on for size then we can all compare notes. You "hook up" with someone, and things seem to be going really, really good from the start. Then because she is having a "hard time" understanding that you are going through a rough time in your life only making 10 an hour. she (ON LINE AGAIN DAMMIT) passes you the ol line "sorry but I need someone a bit more dependent I think your cute and all and am willing to be friends but, thats all I can offer right now.........................
Tell me everyone, am I dreaming or do ALL women seem to have a hard time understanding that YES even MEN can have tough times occassionally. I'm not going to stay in this dump I am in much longer. I can't afford it. but for those in MN and even in NY and CA as you all know we are on the brink of a recession. JOBS are tight and so are the wages and benefits.
Shouldn't she be happy that I am at least employed. I'm not some bum living on the street. (thanks Mom, I think that may be another reason shes backing off) but I'm not proud enough to not go running for help if I need it. But from the state not Her. Jeez.
OK enough ranting for now. anyway this weekend is a Work weekend. the following when Jesse is back for sure. is a weekend off.
Hi Curly. There are a few of us women out there that do understand that a man can go into a rough patch just as easily as women can. She should be happy just to be with you. If she doesnt want to be with you because of the money issue, then you are better off without her. I
I may not know you that well, but from what I have seen you write, you appear to be a very honest and caring person.
I would die of shock there were men like you here in CA!!