Burned out some simple truths for online dating. (4)

Feb 12, 2011 3:02 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
NEWSFLASH: I am burned out, like many of you I have been on this site way to long. So here are some facts.

1. Put the truth in your essay if your looking for a hookup and not a real romance then put that.
2. Realize that if you think your a 9 or 10 thats fine but in any other major city you would be outnumbered and lucky to meet an honest man such as myself.
3. I do not like overweight woman and yes I personally am not perfect and dont expect it but I can go workout for a few months and boom you get the full package. Disclaimer I am not looking for a 10 or expect perfection nor should you.
4. All woman get tons of email, most guys on here are tools and if you think you got a hot stud or even worse your a cougar most likely he is married, cheats or you will find that he does not have time for you.
5. Dont get upset by an essay or message its not always meant the way you take it.
6. I am very loving and sweet but honest and see tons of you on here all the time, get a man and stick with it already.
7. Dont lead a guy on and tell him your perfect for each other then after the date blow him off, its just wrong and no the pasture is not always greener.
8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think.
9. No one is perfect but may be perfect for you. Stop going for the same type as you have in the past look where it got you now.
10. I have been single a long time I DO NOT need a woman, but I want one. Friends, family etc are important, but nothing replaces a soulmate.
11. Do use the whole I am so busy excuse either. If your that busy with work, school or kids then why are you one here..LOL

I have personally made these mistakes, but I do think many woman do this as well and can not even bother to respond because a guy may not be MR perfect, but then again like I said there still on here so obviously they need to make better choices. Yes I am still here to, but I do not email every woman and I do not date hardly at all anymore.

Again this is just my opinion like it or not. It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.
Mar 8, 2011 7:23 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
kimjoko
kimjokokimjokoLincoln, Nebraska USA3 Threads 58 Posts
Thanks for your honesty. It is truly refreshing, good luck to you in finding your soulmate.
Mar 26, 2011 7:42 AM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
FinestWine
FinestWineFinestWineSomeWhere, Nebraska USA58 Posts
stillsearching68: NEWSFLASH: I am burned out, like many of you I have been on this site way to long. So here are some facts.

1. Put the truth in your essay if your looking for a hookup and not a real romance then put that.
2. Realize that if you think your a 9 or 10 thats fine but in any other major city you would be outnumbered and lucky to meet an honest man such as myself.
3. I do not like overweight woman and yes I personally am not perfect and dont expect it but I can go workout for a few months and boom you get the full package. Disclaimer I am not looking for a 10 or expect perfection nor should you.
4. All woman get tons of email, most guys on here are tools and if you think you got a hot stud or even worse your a cougar most likely he is married, cheats or you will find that he does not have time for you.
5. Dont get upset by an essay or message its not always meant the way you take it.
6. I am very loving and sweet but honest and see tons of you on here all the time, get a man and stick with it already.
7. Dont lead a guy on and tell him your perfect for each other then after the date blow him off, its just wrong and no the pasture is not always greener.
8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think.
9. No one is perfect but may be perfect for you. Stop going for the same type as you have in the past look where it got you now.
10. I have been single a long time I DO NOT need a woman, but I want one. Friends, family etc are important, but nothing replaces a soulmate.
11. Do use the whole I am so busy excuse either. If your that busy with work, school or kids then why are you one here..LOL

I have personally made these mistakes, but I do think many woman do this as well and can not even bother to respond because a guy may not be MR perfect, but then again like I said there still on here so obviously they need to make better choices. Yes I am still here to, but I do not email every woman and I do not date hardly at all anymore.

Again this is just my opinion like it or not. It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.
That was a mouthful..But you are right in many ways..I'm tired of the players on here..If your not really looking for a good person, and willing to wait for the best time to meet or get together.Than back off..One got so mad at me because I couldnt make it work right away..He said Oh, we'll figure something out...His dad had a accident so turned around and went back..That was O.K. with me,,but everything turned around from that point....I think he met someone closer and came up with excuses..Thats O.K. too..But don't get mad at me just because your the one not being true..He yelled at me over the phone and I just hung up..Never heard from him again..Thank God...
May 12, 2011 10:07 PM CST Burned out some simple truths for online dating.
lone65
lone65lone65lincoln, Nebraska USA2 Posts
ive been looking for someone real not alot of luck,but if its supposed to happen it will.Good things come to who are humble and who are not a self seeking person, meaning if youre truley honest with youre self first others will know a real person .I truely believe this!!!!!!!!!!!!!cheers
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