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omg I just seen this I don't remember getting mail from you and I do reply to everyone unless its spam...I'm sorry

i'm fairly new to this site, but when i saw this post, i had to respond. i am by far a prude and i'm pretty trendy, but the way some of the women here refer to other ladies, "bitches," is crude. they may well be, but you don't have to stupe to their level. as for all of us new jersey women being rude, i have responded to 98% of my emails, on this site and others. i believe that if a guy has taken the time to express his interest, even if he is someone i know i will never have that chemistry for, it is only appropriate to say "thank you, but no thanks." i do believe in the Golden Rule. i'm not perfect, but i do try. as for "bad boys," everyone has their preferences. physical chemistry is very important, but "average" can be enhanced by someone's inner beauty, too. anyway, not all jersey women are rude and inconsiderate. this one isn't. but i would also like some of the men to respect my feelings as well. then again, if they can't even respond, you and i don't want them anyway!!! have a great online experience, everyone, and play it safe.

somehow i think it's the post you have up if you speak the same way you write... and ask for a horny woman you get what you get maybe you should speak and write with a little more class i'm from newark, nj you can't get anymore east coast than that.... no i'm not a bitch but i am looking for a grown up man

i don't know about jersey chicks being stuck up but Asian females are easily the most stuck up by far.

..you cant exactly say that all woman in NJ are stuck up, cause im not. i know a lot who are and i know a lot who arent. woman are going to be like that everywhere. woman around here just know what they want and their bitchy about it. its true..and i dont believe that statement is true about us wanting to be treated like shit. the reason why you may think were bitchy and/or stuck up is BECAUSE we ARE treated like shit. most of the time anyway. :) prove us wrong ontario

Well who knows what experience you will have. You can try treating them like shit and see how far it gets you. Whether they are stuck up or not, we all have limits.

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what is up south amboy, is that you're picking the wrong women. everywhere you go you will find stuck up women. by reading you're profile it sounds like you choose a person by there body, i believe that could be your problem with finding a good women.

agreed. personally I'm put off by guys who are pushovers and entirely too nice to me. It's not attractive when a guy lets you walk all over him. Show me that you're a strong confident guy who deserves respect and I will respect you back.

i forgot to add.. yes new jersey women generally know what they want and how they deserve to be treated, and if you're not it, we're not going to respond. move on to the next girl.

Then how come you never wrote me back?


Point proven....

No all east coast nj women are not stuck up. I myself, and all the women I know here, are most decidely not stuck up! Please always treat whatever woman you are with as a gentleman would - a lady will respond appropriately and be more than appreciative of your efforts.

I am not stuck up by any means. I like to give people chances. The only thing is, and I'm not saying this to be rude... the Amboys are FILLED with extremely stuck up, snobby, know-it-all girls. I'm not saying they all are. I lived in Carteret for 14 years. I still know a few people in the Amboys. And to make a point, I dated a guy in South Amboy for almost 2 years. You know what he did to me? He left me because he found some girl in his neighborhood that he thought was "way hotter." Now what isn't stuck up about that?