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I don't understand why a man would beat on the woman they "love", then apologize profusely and tell her how much he "loves" her and that he could never live without her. Would you file this under insecurity?

I would file this under, get out now...run just as fast as your two legs will carry you...this will not get better...only worse as time goes on...been there done that...trust me. Love does not mean being hit, controlled, or being degraded. If you need to talk, just drop me an e-mail any time. Please be safe.

Men could say the same about women. I know a few guys who are treated like dirt from their women, and they don't do anything about, they just take the beating. No no, there comes a time when you must call the cops and protect yourself, and if you are in danger of your life, I don't care if you're a man or woman, you fight and you fight hard. Then you put an order of protection (restraining order) against that person. But to come back and sob and give the "sorry baby" story, it may work for awhile, but in the end you are the one that looses.

I agree. Never is there an excuse to hit a woman. Maybe seeing as how I have only bee in New Mexico 10 years, my view differs. The way I was brought up was that even if a woman hits you like a man, just walk away. Hard to fight someone that won't fight back.

Should never beat on a woman ever