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i've never met anyone in person ive met online this is all new to me..... its worth a try

I just Joined a day or so ago. So I'm still feeling my way around, so I guess no is what I'm trying to say.

How long have you been on this site? Good Luck, remember you are only a failure AFTER you stop trying, hang in there.

Gem

Hum if your new to this, my first bit of advice would be take it SLOW. Maybe even get with a friend (female) to help you put a little more effort into your profile.

I have found that good pics are a must (cough! still need to work on that one myself lol) Your pic will get them to read your your profile, your profile will get them to either respond (to a flirt, message, E-mail, Friend request ect.) or to initiate contact. I try and change things every so often, a new picture and update my profile at the same time.

Just remember don't get frustrated, and don't take it personal if you someone feels you and she are not a match. Just move to the next on the list.

In my opinion online dating is like blind folded, speed dating, on crack. You only have a few seconds to make or lose that connection that may lead to everything you are dreaming of.

Again, good luck and try and take it nice and slow.

Gem

iam new to this online dating myself. its all new to me . i live in the mountains of north carolina and women here in my small town are very limited. ive been living the single life now over 10 years. i've been to a few clubs here were i live
and mostly older women than myself. that's why i decited to try online dating.

good luck in your search. it's gonna be hard. iv'e been on a few of these dating lines. some of them just plain sucked. i'am faily new here myself. just three days. have had a few talks with some females. too bad they were not closer. that seems to be the problem, females that are local are either too young or too old. also watch your back, alot of scammers out here. fakes, have fun and be careful.

yes we do have to be careful of scammers out here.
ive been a new member now for 5 days. and i have had 2 comtacts myself and so far nothing really close except one and we are still talking. guess it takes patients and maybee someday we will find what we are in search of. this online dating is all new to me.i was checking out another online dating site and nmost of all the people were from other countrys
and iam not into that. well good luck people and be careful
keeep you flaggs up