Heavy and lonely

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ptcba Cincinnati, Ohio USA
Tue Jun 2, 2009 2:12 PM CST : Heavy and lonely
I am told beautiful women like heavy men, umm right so where are these women, I v'e looked for a 11 months now.... I am told that I'm very insecure...maybe thats' my problem? What's your thoughts.dunno
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luvmnlvem Stow, Ohio USA
Thu Jun 4, 2009 6:51 PM CST : Heavy and lonely
So you are only looking for a beautiful woman? You say you have been looking for 11 months- well excuse me if i sound mean but even us average looking women can smell the desperation. Its not very attractive.

Why are you so insecure? is it the fact that you might be heavy or something else- before you can be truly happy in a relationship or love someone else- you have to love yourself- Confidence is a very sexy attribute.

No offense intended- but work on yourself and someone will find you.

Oh! and please!!!!! stop whining!!! it takes time to find that perfect someone for you- so be patient- it'll happencomfort
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drew4069 vandalia, Ohio USA
Mon Jun 8, 2009 1:34 PM CST : Heavy and lonely
Last post has a point,confidence in your selfe and the things you do make a big difference. don't be desperate or needy,no one wants another person to take care of. be your own man,take care of your domestic chores your selfe,women like a guy that cooks and does laundry,dishes,etc.
I'm also a big guy 300#, don't misslead,put it out there and keep things simple,everyone wants similar traits in a life partener, if she wants a toy then she maybe not ready to settle down. a real woman can go by the person you are and help you better yourselfe.
don't be so particular about what she looks like,I find that even a big woman can look good if thay dress correctly,who realy wants a woman that looks bodywise like a 12y.o. boy?
C.S. can be a good place, I found my new girl here!! she said "I saw your pic. and I kept going back to it." she had no pic. on her pro. but I responded anyway. turns out I think she is beautyful!! so much that I still don't understand why she wants me? we met over the holiday weekend and spent two days and nights together and I just returned from spending this weekend with her.
guess my point is that don't judge others by the way thay look,and YES there are beautiful women that like or will look beyond a guy being fat. both ex-wifes,few girlfriends never dated a big guy till me?
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nomindgames Painesville, Ohio USA
Fri Jun 12, 2009 9:36 PM CST : Heavy and lonely
If you would have said women and left out the word beautiful,I may have something nice to say,but you sound as prejudice as the "beautiful women who pass you by. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. To me it's the inner beauty not the outer crust your born in. That's my thoughts,you asked.
However I do wish you as I do all members on CS that you meet your lady whether here or elsewhere.
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