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I feel bad for you that you keep ending up meeting people you don't enjoy the time with. I am sure it must get frustrating at times,but ask yourself that ? Y? Sometimes you have to kiss alot of frogs......
I have had only 1 not so good meeting. Fortunatly so far the men I meet are genuines far as I can tell. Haveade a few real friends from meeting. Others just wern't what I really want,or my heart would start to thump. I feel blessed I have not had many bad meetings. Maybe you need to talk on phone more and ask ?'s before meeting?
I personally would not keep it up over and over. Would just say forget it and get a good book.Maybe need to get to know them better first. Think of the meetings that have been disasters and how could you maybe keep from having it happen again? If you meet a real person who is who he portrayed himself to be please share.

Thank you for your reply. I will keep trying in hopes that if i do ask more question i might not make such a bad meeting.

Do you remember trying to ride your first bike? I know when I first tried I crashed way too many times. But the end result was great .... So keep getting on that bike. (that could be a sexual reference as well) Plus wearing low cut tops on the dates helps. haha

Grins.

Oh the whys, well I can tell ya the longest and a good friendship I made on line we met at home depot.
We were going to do the lunch thing, but got delayed, tired of waiting so phoned him and said I needed a few things in store if ya gonna meet me c-ya in chain.

He did and we hit it off vary well, so from that I always make my meets equal out to something I need to get done anyway.

Cold yeah, but i hate to waste a trip.
I don't go looking for love, the most I hold out for is a friend, love takes too long to hold out for in one meet.

Yes, all men hope for sex women hope for love me I hope for someone that knows more on solvents than me or a good trail, want to throw a guy off his game were sweats and ask him to come paint for a free lunch.

Dont expect a thing and you might get surprized.

I've actually met a couple of ladies through CS, and spent some good times with them both. All of us decided, at one point, or another, it was not an eternal connection, but a connection of friends, meant to be friends, with memories, and lessons, that will last. The best thing about doing it this way, through online communication, is that, nobody wakes up with a hang over think WTF did I just do.

Because its the human nature to hope. To hope that the next ring will be that one you've been waiting for, thatthe man at the door is him, that the man at the coffee shop IS that random stranger that you just connect with. Men like to say that its a feminine weakness to hope and to believe in these things, but it takes to to connect across a room right?

Maybe it won't be so romantic or perfect but all of us have hope that we have that "moment", whether its the first or the last. And maybe the "moment" doesn't equate to true love that lasts for all eternity, but sometimes having that moment makes a lifetime of happiness...because it perpetuates the belief in hope.

And those moments live on with you forever, even when those loves have been lost, have walked out the door, those loves, its precious moments, are with you forever, with non of them ever the same, but of there own purpose. From one vet, to another, thank you dotyclae.